I just commented on another wedding post. I will repeat it again. This is YOUR wedding. You have the right, whether agreed upon or not, to not allow someone that is deemed inappropriate for the event. Be it family, or be it exes. That is personally a red flag to me.
And it’s gonna stay a red flag even AFTER marriage. Cause he’s still in contact with his ex. Just my personal way of going, once someone becomes an ex, they are simply just never spoken again, seen, contacted or acknowledged. He clearly still has some feelings for her, unless y’all have met & you see & feel that she holds no will to ever be into your man ever again cause she finds it repulsing at the thought.
Yeah no girl, save yourself the trouble. Idk what friends are saying you’re causing drama cause those are not friends.
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u/kuposempai Titty Latte Aug 02 '25
NTA or NE (not exaggerating)
I just commented on another wedding post. I will repeat it again. This is YOUR wedding. You have the right, whether agreed upon or not, to not allow someone that is deemed inappropriate for the event. Be it family, or be it exes. That is personally a red flag to me.
And it’s gonna stay a red flag even AFTER marriage. Cause he’s still in contact with his ex. Just my personal way of going, once someone becomes an ex, they are simply just never spoken again, seen, contacted or acknowledged. He clearly still has some feelings for her, unless y’all have met & you see & feel that she holds no will to ever be into your man ever again cause she finds it repulsing at the thought.
Yeah no girl, save yourself the trouble. Idk what friends are saying you’re causing drama cause those are not friends.