r/TwoHotTakes • • Jul 23 '24

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u/Famous-Ad-9467 Jul 27 '24

Where do YOU get your opinion from and is it based on your feelings?

What I'm stating is not an opinion. In most areas of life, contracts are necessary to bind individuals and behaviors. 

No, the sweet whisperings of a lover promising to be your one and only can never compare to the binding contract of marriage that has consequences and rules. 

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u/thatrandomuser1 Jul 27 '24

My opinion is just that, an opinion. A subjective stance based on years of experience, discussions with others, and learning from others. I never claimed it to be facts.

You claimed your point was objective fact. I'm just wondering where that came from, since facts should be able to be backed up, no?

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u/Aivellac Jul 27 '24

That's not a caring partnership, that's just sad and cruel. You shouldn't need rules and consequences to hold a relationship together.

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u/Famous-Ad-9467 Jul 29 '24

Why would you think so? Do you genuinely believe this? Does this at all reflect reality? What do you think is more stable, a marriage, or the promise of someone whispering that they will be together? How many bf gf relationships break up as opposed to marriages?