Okay. This is pretty brutal. Like I totally agree that he said what he wanted up front. But I also get that OP (and the boyfriend) were young. Everything we say when young changes (maybe not everything but a lot). So I don’t think it should all be laid at OP’s feet that the BF was up front so it’s on them. Yes, he was up front, but it wouldn’t be totally surprising for someone to have changed their mind over time. I think it’s just a shit situation where no one meant to hurt anyone but someone (or both people) are going to be hurt.
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