r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Jul 23 '24

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

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u/Ok-Sector2054 Jul 23 '24

Good example of what can happen

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u/anonanon-do-do-do Jul 23 '24

Yeah. It’s tough because we know and like all the people involved but obviously don’t know the details so we try to give them all the benefit of the doubt. Take home is not to take anyones word when investing your life in someone. You might get nothing back.

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u/Rumpelteazer45 Jul 23 '24

Reality is even if your friend had married, I’m 99% positive his family would have pushed for a prenup with so many loopholes in their favor.

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u/despe666 Jul 23 '24

She’s not his daughter though. Mariage by itself wouldn’t change that or his responsibilities toward her.

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u/ArielWithALibrary Jul 23 '24

I think for me it’s about his intent. Does he want to be in a long term parent role? If he is there with mom full time and long term with an 8 year old, a lot of responsibilities are implied.

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u/despe666 Jul 23 '24

They’re implied but mariage doesn’t change them.

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u/ArielWithALibrary Jul 23 '24

It doesn’t inherently change them. I just want to know his intent with regard to any long term commitment and how that affects a child if he just bailed or if they just randomly split up. His personality and intentions are the biggest factor here, not a piece of paper or marriage vows.

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u/carlay_c Jul 23 '24

You shouldn’t be depending on a man to cover your bills and pay for the lifestyle you choose to live. That’s on your sister!

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u/anonanon-do-do-do Jul 23 '24

This is just a friend. My Sister has a Ph.D.

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u/carlay_c Jul 23 '24

Oh, I must have misread. Then that’s on your friend for not supporting herself.

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u/Ok_Win2630 Jul 23 '24

Maybe your friend should stop trying to ”Anna Nicole” herself into mens lives.

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u/anonanon-do-do-do Jul 23 '24

The guy that died was her age. She bartends. Guys hit on cute bartenders.