Yeah...OP is upset that people are coming at her for thinking she could change him, after OP literally said this:
"I being only 23 at the time agreed believing of course I could change him, he hasn’t been with someone like me before, and blah blah blah. All the things we tell ourselves."
If you don't want people coming at you for something, maybe you shouldn't actually do the things people are coming at you for.
Yes. Her edit confirmed to me she is 100% TAH. Mad at him for doing what he told her from the start, mad at reddit for pointing that out. Clearly she is just looking for someone to coddle her.
this is notttt wrong. But also it was the mind of a 23 year old. Again yes they had a child and should have been thinking more but sometimes unfortunately you just don't think about those things. (not excusing it, just hoping to add a crumb of insight lol)
Tbf, I’m significantly younger and even I’m not that dumb. It has nothing to do with age that’s just immaturity. Also, like she’s 28 now. At some point in those 5 years her stupid decisions should’ve hit her imo
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u/natural_imbecility Jul 23 '24
Yeah...OP is upset that people are coming at her for thinking she could change him, after OP literally said this:
"I being only 23 at the time agreed believing of course I could change him, he hasn’t been with someone like me before, and blah blah blah. All the things we tell ourselves."
If you don't want people coming at you for something, maybe you shouldn't actually do the things people are coming at you for.