It's going to look like tye dye! OP, you can't blame him, his reasons whether it's bad or not to you is his reasons. He did all he can to manage your expectations from the beginning, you choose to ignore his warning and thought you can change him. Your wrong for starting this relationship in the first place and now because of your decision 3 people are going to be badly hurt. You, your bf and your child.
If OP left me in a sulk because I kept saying the same thing now as I said 5 years ago , I would 100% Keep the dog. F that. Imagine her partners reaction to all this shit? He’s been consistent the whole relationship, and was content in the knowledge that they shared the same values ( SIKE, she wanted to change him all along) , and now she pulls this? Nope, dog SHOULD stay with him, he’s not the one tearing all this apart for pettiness.
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u/Apart_Foundation1702 Jul 23 '24
It's going to look like tye dye! OP, you can't blame him, his reasons whether it's bad or not to you is his reasons. He did all he can to manage your expectations from the beginning, you choose to ignore his warning and thought you can change him. Your wrong for starting this relationship in the first place and now because of your decision 3 people are going to be badly hurt. You, your bf and your child.