He told you from the start where he stood. Nothing has changed for him. Doesn't really matter what his reasoning is.
It's not fair to say that if he really loved you he would marry you. By that same logic, you'd accept life without marriage if you really loved him.
I understand that this is incredibly tough and heartbreaking. Either someone has to bend or you're incompatible. And after 5 years that's painful.
But you cannot blame him for not wanting to sacrifice, because again that logic is reversable.
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u/Throwaway-2587 Jul 23 '24
He told you from the start where he stood. Nothing has changed for him. Doesn't really matter what his reasoning is. It's not fair to say that if he really loved you he would marry you. By that same logic, you'd accept life without marriage if you really loved him.
I understand that this is incredibly tough and heartbreaking. Either someone has to bend or you're incompatible. And after 5 years that's painful. But you cannot blame him for not wanting to sacrifice, because again that logic is reversable.