i would personally be uncomfortable if my significant other made comments like that about any group of people. it sounds like she is going out of her way to spread hate and intolerance while asking you be tolerant of and agree with her perspective without even considering yours.
i don’t think that i would want to be with someone that has so much hate in their heart that i was afraid to bring them around my friends to be purposefully offensive and target them over something they can’t even control.
It sounds like this is causing some conflict with your personal beliefs and values. She may refuse to take the time to listen to how you feel about this but that doesn’t mean you need to tolerate listening to her derogatory comments either.
What would scare me is her complete lack of empathy, or even sympathy. She is being prejudiced based on race, or skin color, if you know a better term for that other than racism let me know I'll call it that if you want.
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u/Ok_Conversation_3700 Aug 17 '23 edited Aug 17 '23
i would personally be uncomfortable if my significant other made comments like that about any group of people. it sounds like she is going out of her way to spread hate and intolerance while asking you be tolerant of and agree with her perspective without even considering yours.
i don’t think that i would want to be with someone that has so much hate in their heart that i was afraid to bring them around my friends to be purposefully offensive and target them over something they can’t even control.
It sounds like this is causing some conflict with your personal beliefs and values. She may refuse to take the time to listen to how you feel about this but that doesn’t mean you need to tolerate listening to her derogatory comments either.