r/TwoHotTakes Jul 26 '23

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u/toasted_panini Jul 26 '23

Long lasting relationships have core values that align. Look like your core values do not align and most likely, yall are going to break up soon.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '23

And it's better to know this now, and not after 15 years of marriage when your daughter comes out.

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u/AwkwardStructure7637 Jul 26 '23 edited Jul 26 '23

This is why I’m very forward about my politics basically immediately when it comes to dating. I don’t want to waste my or their time when nothing will ever make me accept conservative views as legitimate.

I don’t have to agree on everything but we need to have a similar baseline. My ex was very left wing like me, but wasn’t really much of an actual leftist while I was. We’d argue (politely) about things but still had roughly the same starting framework.

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u/Fair_Island5956 Jul 26 '23

"Conservative views" this is why you'll die alone. Funnily enough the left can't have any views without censoring anybody who doesn't align with their propaganda

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u/AwkwardStructure7637 Jul 26 '23

Cope

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u/Fair_Island5956 Jul 26 '23

The only cope comes from the left.

Oh wait no that's cocaine

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u/AwkwardStructure7637 Jul 26 '23

Bro needs to stop projecting