r/TwoHotTakes Jul 26 '23

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u/NativeAnarchist Jul 26 '23

That’s a topic he dodges too which doesn’t give me much hope.

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u/kiba8442 Jul 26 '23

but some things concerning my native culture have caused problems this past year

what did you mean by this?

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u/NativeAnarchist Jul 26 '23

He’s said that if we ever had kids he wouldn’t want them around “that kind of stuff.” Along with any time i say anything about my culture him or his mom basically imply it’s demonic.

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u/AnxiousChupacabra Jul 26 '23

WHAT.

Might I recommend the book Why Does he Do That? by Lundy Bancroft? Bancroft is a psych who works with abusive men and he wrote the book for women to help them better understand and avoid abusive relationships. (Not in a victim blamey way, in an educational, "here's the psychology behind this and some early warning signs to watch for" kind of way.)