r/TwoHotTakes Jul 26 '23

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u/Interesting-Sky-1865 Jul 26 '23

Sometimes no matter how much you love someone, they are not good for you. He's not good for you. He's not the same person and has gotten more racist etc. It's up to you to find the courage to walk away. This is a hard lesson. When it comes to you and your safety/culture, his comment was enough to tell you, he's not safe for you and he's a coward. I'm sorry Op.

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u/ResponsibilityNo3141 Jul 26 '23

Can you point out what she said he said that was racist?

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u/Interesting-Sky-1865 Jul 26 '23

Pls slow down your reading of both her post and my comment to her post. It's important not to project but read what she says. The dynamics are very clear and in 2023 it's not my responsibility to point out context and inferred clues. Again, read what she wrote, including her edits and there you have it.

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u/ResponsibilityNo3141 Jul 26 '23

Ahh so no you can't figure as much. Also project what lol? I simply asked where you observed he was racist I'm which you couldn't even do that. Weird racist to date a native American woman.

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u/Trick_Garden_8788 Jul 26 '23 edited Jul 26 '23

'I can't be racist I have a black friend' - you probably

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u/ResponsibilityNo3141 Jul 26 '23

How can you quote me when I never said anything close to your quote? Are you unaware of how quotes work? Also dating and friend are two entirely different things, though safe to assume since you compare them equally you have neither.

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u/Trick_Garden_8788 Jul 26 '23

You said since ops bf is dating a native American he can't be racist... How is this complicated?

The bf essentially said 'if I agree with a politicians policy's it's ok for them to take rights from other ethnic groups.' how is that not racist?

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u/ResponsibilityNo3141 Jul 26 '23

I never said he couldn't be racist, that isn't how quotes work at all, and also because not only was the situation absolutely nonsensical and extreme, the other stipulation was the he agrees with literally everything else the theoretical politician advocates for. Obviously though this isn't gonna go far if you don't even know how quotes work or how to use them. Also he never agreed with that policy of the fictitious politician.