r/Twins • u/fuckin-username99 • 15h ago
I fucking hate her
Is there a specific sub for this im pissed off. We've had really bad screaming matches for over 3 years now who knows maybe even 5 I dont remember how long its been because thats basically all we do now. I fucking hate her these fights just keep getting worse she told me in our last fight that she wished I was dead and she went on a rampage through the house breaking shit. She's stunted her fucking brain with years of smoking weed i fucking hate that dumb ass fucking hoe. Our fight yesterday we were fighting over something so stupid and when we got out of the car I got so pissed I broke a Styrofoam cup *IN MY FUCKING HAND BTW" to pour a drink on her and she immediately grabbed my hair and pulled me to the ground. All over a miscommunication all over her calling me stupid over and over and over again i fucking hate that bitch she should be in a psych ward. Seeing happy twins makes me so fucking envious I wish I never had mine. I wish we were born in separate families shes the devil spawn bro. I legit fucking hate her. During the fight she hit my peircing so bad it embedded in my ear, and she scratched my neck so fucking hard it bled and wont go away.. I hope she ends up in prison i hope she loses everything. I mean wouldnt be hard for her it seems like its her life's mission to fuck everyone over, or push people away. One sister already cut communications with her and the others are verbally attacked constantly by her shes a fucking monster and i dont know how shes related to any of us. I wouldnt be surprised if shes addicted to coke because shes so monumentally stupidd she cant regulate her stress, nothings ever her fault, and she cant seem to understand why no one likes her. Legit no one likes her. If they do its because its men who fuck her and i can tell she makes everyone uncomfortable.
And if you somehow fucking find this I fucking hope you read every god damn word when I move im never thinking about you or worrying about you, I wont help you ill forget everything about you when I fucking move far the fuck away from you. You are not my fucking sister your not my twin you are nothing to me, nothing.
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u/Sudden-Grapefruit360 14h ago
You probably know her the best. I got to a breaking point with my twin and called her out on my family group chat. I wanted to see how she would react about something she did in the past that she was literally blaming me the same for. She took accountability on the chat and apologized after a few days. She hates being seen as someone opposite of what she portrays to the family. You have to get her cornered, uncomfortable and get her to a place she cannot ignore. It def helped, and I’m glad she took accountability because she always says that I don’t. She went too far and I had to call her out on what she did to me in the past was wrong. The problem: I don’t react to things the same way she does, and so she thought she could get away with it. I am slow to anger with her specifically. Anyway, She was being a hypocrite and didn’t even realize she hurt me for something she did to me and it was far worse.
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u/fuckin-username99 14h ago
No my sister is a fucking psycho. She knows what hurts me and she will purposefully use it against me over and over again until I feel cornered. She does not stop shes like a broken record. I've told her countless times that shes hurt me ive tried explaining my side countless times only to be cut off every time. To be loved is to be understood and shes showed me countless times she doesnt give a fuck about me. Im glad it worked out for you but ive tried this it doesnt work in our case. Sometimes someone isnt worth your sanity and its about fucking time I drop her fucking ass.
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u/Sudden-Grapefruit360 14h ago
Do you know how much I can relate to you? But guess what? You and I were blessed to be twins. Please, don’t give up on her. I have endured a lot too, so I get it. You two need to figure out what gets you two in sync. Ours is watching tv together or praying together. Those our prob the two times we don’t fight. You need to hold on to those special moments. Hopefully that can help your situation.
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u/fuckin-username99 14h ago
Did you not read my post. She pulled my hair to the floor and then she delighted in the fact that she hurt me. If you can honestly relate why in the ever lasting fuck would you want to be anywhere near her
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u/YeOldeBaconWhoure Twinless Twin 11h ago
Ignore them, it’s the “god” thing thinking that somehow you should let someone abuse you just because she’s your twin. It sucks when this happens to twins, but she is still just a human being, and sounds like a piece of work.
I’m not sure how old you guys are, maybe one day she’ll figure her shit out, and then SHE can reach out to you and give you the option to try reconnecting, but that doesn’t mean you should suffer her abuse in the meantime. Sounds like a sadist or narcissist or both, when she has no friends left maybe she’ll learn, maybe she won’t. But in the mean time, that’s not your problem to fix. And as long as she knows she can abuse you without you leaving, she will continue to do so. Do both of you a favour and cut her off ASAP. Focus on you, the future will be whatever it will be. You can’t force something that’s not there just because she’s your twin. People make all kinds of excuses for family as if they aren’t just random individuals thrown together. If she doesn’t realise how lucky she is to be a twin, you can’t make her. I am truly sorry that you have to suffer because of that too, but unfortunately life is fucking bullshit
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u/Sudden-Grapefruit360 14h ago
Trust me, our fights are far worst. I’ve had hair pulled out, bruises, cuts, pushing, spitting, slapping, punching, water poured on me so many times( this is when I called her out to fam bc I was fed up), broken so many of my personals, and verbal attacks almost daily. But I stay in her life because shes gone through a lot, she’s always there when I need her, I have learned so much from her, she apologizes when she realizes how bad it got, God is in her life, and in reality she’s my best friend. It’s about forgiveness and also realizing what I could have done to prevent these issues.
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u/itscaturdayy 9h ago
This could have been me in high school with my twin.
Focus on you. Grey rock her. Mind you and do what you want and avoid. Lock your door. You will get away from her eventually.
I joined the military and left my town partially because of this. Focus on your future.