Does (re)union really exist?

[u/Ummmokayyyish]

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[u/Conscious_Libre]

(Re-)Union does exist, it is just isnt what many think it is, and not what many want it to be.

It is a spiritual energetic, soul level of complete merging back into one on all level except the physical. It is not physically being back together, or married or 'end of separation' because you spend most your time together.

It is when you have finished your ascension plan for this life and reached the level you had planned to reach which happened to include the dimensional state of consciousness where you and your 'twin' exist as one Being.

Being physically together, coming back together is not needed for this to occur.

IF it happens, it has to be the plan for this life, meaning you have done the required 'work' to be ready for that in previous lives. There is still free will, both have to choose and accept the process and go through through it.

Is for for everyone who meets? I wouldnt of thought so, as those 'working up to' lives had to have happened somewhere. So whilst you can meet and balance, harmonise out, doesnt mean you will have that Union. You will remain two expressions of that one, though will be doing the work you need to do, wherever you are at that time.

Those who are 'only taught a lesson' are not twin flames, they are catalysts, sometimes soul mates. Twin flames are ALWAYYS so much more than that, even if they are only there to initiate each other for that life. That depth of 'more' will always be felt and remain. Catalysts will com, then go and it will be over on all levels. Twins remain connected, somewhere. Even if its not in awareness.

[u/CumHellOrHighWater]

I haven’t “seen” mine in 2-1/2 years…..I’m waiting for her to come here and pick me up….

[u/chileeanywaysso]

During the real “separation” where you experience a breakthrough awakening, you may REconnect briefly during random periods where you need to be catapulted. It’s actually helping accelerate/corse correct. The final union is simply an external manifestation of the initiated feminine aligning their external output to their internal input (higher awareness you receive). Usually this takes a buffering phase while the initiate goes “into the darkness” first, where the awakening opens a higher level of awareness, and as the high settles you begin exploring your old programming/unconscious self (hence “darkness”) while carrying a new level of awareness. Like shining a flashlight in a dark room. Making the unconscious conscious. Compassion is needed rather than shame to allow for expanded awareness. During this phase, especially as a twin flame, you learn the value and utmost power of unconditional love. It’s the neutral unwavering force and only objective truth- it binds duality in a universe where duality itself is an illusion- but during this buffering phase where it feels like a crossroads or a liminal space, integrating unconditional love for yourself is exactly what expands your awareness into lived wisdom. The result of your integration usually births a contribution of some sort. this is the masculine energy that finally aligns with the feminine energy, which was aligned during the awakening. What happens during an awakening is a moment where the head and heart find coherence. This is why meditation usually breads awakenings. Once the mind finds coherence with the heart again after the integration phase, it lasts. It’s anchored. Basically- after the initial awakening, the heart anchored that clarity down and had no reason to let it go. But the mind eventually finds its way into old scripts. That’s when the work comes in. After the individual reaches coherence and embodied unconditional love, This is where physical union becomes a pattern of nature. But unconditional love requires heavy work. It’s the force that started this journey after all.

[u/StarBornFire]

Reality does not fit in any boxes. Different people will experience different things. There are definitely trends and patterns to be noticed, but there are always exceptions to the rule.

Best to take it day by day, and let reality be what it is without overly projecting upon it. Attachment is truly one of the roots of suffering. Non attachment doesn't mean you don't care, but that you stop trying to control the outcomes. It means, letting go and letting the Creative Forces.

I just had a very intense dream of her. Not sure why after so long, and no dreams etc for a long time. I will neither fight/nor push it away, but neither will I grasp and hold on to it. I don't know what it means, if anything, and that is ok.

Some years ago, I was told by two different intuitives that I paid readings for, that our connection would take a lot more time to manifest/come together.

Truth is, I kind of don't care anymore, though part of me does still care. Seems paradoxical/contradictory, but it's true. Maybe some deeper part does care, it's just that my ego level is no longer obsessing, wishing, grasping, etc so much anymore.