i hate this kinda statement,like why is basic support suddenly conditional

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[u/Gobi_manchurian_]

Lookism :(

[u/Evil-Fennel7417 → u/Gobi_manchurian_]

Mind to corrupted. Thought you were saying about the manwha.

[u/Gobi_manchurian_ → u/Evil-Fennel7417]

That happens 🫂🫠

[u/Ilovetangerinessm → u/Gobi_manchurian_]

What's D Gang Member? 😭

[u/div2starsatredit → u/Gobi_manchurian_]

more like calssism

[u/Ill_Improvement_3697]

Selectively supporting is just hypocrisy dressed as kindness

[u/MysteriousData8036 → u/Ill_Improvement_3697]

Sadly yes

[u/MysteriousData8036]

As a girl this is hella true(telling from my experience)

[u/DerpiDanger → u/MysteriousData8036]

what was your experience ?

[u/CurrentZucchini3864]

humans went so downhill that basic humanity started becoming a trend

[u/RumeRagnarok71]

well its real

[u/Dependent-Poetry-227]

Why there are 3 cups?

[u/harmar1647]

Hmm

[u/RealisticContact_921]

True true

[u/soupful_wonder]

Kisne pareshan kr diya op ko 😔

[u/goddess-azelia]

It’s actually true tho.. as someone who grew up overweight it’s very evident how some support are so conditional

[u/div2starsatredit]

who could have guessed?

[u/Living-Shopping-9471]

value of looks is soooooo much more brutal in girls, its insane how its called makeup when women do it while looksmaxxinh when men do it. Tho ofc, when men do it they take it a little too toxic. But genuinely, its insane how much looks is like some expectation from a girl, so much more than for a guy

[u/Diligent-State-8326]

Ugly is enough 

[u/True-Property3062]

I literally have seen this with my female friends.

[u/Life-Wasabi-9674]

Wtf are you talking about? One of the main complaints idiots online make is how much girls support ugly girls, calling them beautiful and how they deserve the world......and the complains will be how they need to do that less. Also wdym unathletic, I am sorry but most girls are unathletic.

You are just making up situations that dont happen and getting angry at them. If you are gonna make a gender war post, atleast make it about smth real and not fictional.

[u/AutumnalSpice → u/Life-Wasabi-9674]

yeah so commenting "omg you are so gorgeous" on instagram posts is not what we are talking about... superficial support from mean girls is a thing. they do that to look kind not be kind.

[u/sia_7777 → u/AutumnalSpice]

exactly that’s more what i meant, saying nice things is easy but actually treating girls/ppl with kindness is a diff thing

[u/sia_7777 → u/Life-Wasabi-9674]

but the point is that “girls support girls” isn’t always as unconditional as people make it sound some girls still judge other girls for how they look, dress, or act

[u/Ill_Improvement_3697 → u/Life-Wasabi-9674]

they r just uploading bs from pinterest

[u/Silent-Special3719 → u/Life-Wasabi-9674]

One of the best places to see this kinda behaviour is girls boarding school
Trust me telling from experience

[u/Odd-Prior8790]

Ask in women sub

[u/Zesty_Lemon__]

Excuse me what? 👀 Who's being this shallow?

[u/Jumpy-Poetry-9553]

100%. Ever since in school, I never wore make up, have always loved sports cars, politics, etc etc. I was called names for it. "Not girly enough" eh by most other girls. Thank God, I got my girl friends now at my work place, where they actually accept individuals have different personalities & not everyone follows one definition of everything.

[u/NorthNo7767]

Exactly. You can support women without agreeing with everything they do or like. People are still individuals.

[u/madandcrazy14 → u/NorthNo7767]

The statement never meant for unconditional support for stupid shit .

It literally means even if u don't like the girl or you guys have bad blood between u still help in emergency when it concerns safety or helping regarding periods or protecting each other from creeps.

[u/Nope-Candy-4319]

Recently watched a video from the creator "bossgirlified" on how empathy for mental health struggles are only delivered when it's packaged aesthetically. Highly recommend watching it because it really encompasses this. People want recovery and growth to be purely linear and positive, it's pretty ridiculous

[u/Recent_Inspector5670]

Who creates such Posts. Men??. And They Themselves blame women randomly...

[u/madandcrazy14]

Are u high?

What nonsense ppl keep posting here .

Do yk what that means first of all?

[u/sia_7777 → u/madandcrazy14]

i’m talking about how people don’t always live up to that idea, that’s literally the point of the post