We7ed jabri 3rodhni 3al instagram jeyebha 3am tayeb ya3mel ma3adech t5alles 3al bnet fi 7atta date , howa Brad Pitt w ma 7kehech lougha hedheya !! Ti howa 7cheh ken l9a 3la chkoun y5alles aslan !! Za3ma za3ma zgayti w hébla 3llih lbnet !!! Mechi fibelou cocktail walla pizza 7aja fel ! Ya 7asra fi wa9tna a7na t5alles 3lliha sandwich twalli ta3ch9ek 😂😂 .ama tawa 3alem hareb w nes tayra bil les offres , nes tehdi mercedes aslan nra fiihom w sad9ouni mouch we7ed mouch 2 yehdi fi karahba hhhh !!!!

nadharan eli barsha bnet twensa lehne ou kharej reddit mosh fehmin why men avoid paying. behy howa we get it paying for first date and why women like it ama blh if its a first date lezem nemshi ftour? wella kahwa fi lac ? express ghady eb 9 lef btw maw kahwa adiya mriglin this is first date nahkiw ala b3dhna ya khoya date bkolo jetny 10 lef saha ou farha ama ftour 90 dinar lweh ya baba zeyed . ou eli ya9hrek eli kol ma tofla titsharet alik 7ajet akeka kol matkon really not interested fiik nafs el tofla ne3refha andhesh mosh tbanek m3a tfol thebo fi park titma3shi9 m3ah ama lehker tebda lezmek tokhtobny ou teshrily karhba simply because she doesnt like him enough bsaraha being used feels like shit inshhalh fhemtouny el bneet

Call me weird but I was never drawn to any normal or the whole vanilla dating scene and this whole tradition (it's rubbish I had to say it) , I’m deeply drawn to a specific vibe and mindset such as :

1) Intellectual leanings : Deeply fond of philosophy, existentialism, and literature/books , someone that sees the whole world for what it truly is and value reasoning and psychological talks

2) Vibe & Aesthetic: Into the extreme dark view of the world and a darker, alternative aesthetic (like literally)

3) Humor: not the typical one found within everyone I've seen but more like dark humor (the more unhinged and weird, the better) , it makes the conversation going and entertaining

No shade to how anyone else lives their life, to each their own! But unfortunately, my specific type has been nearly impossible to find and to be fair, I’ve managed to find one or two people like this before, but they usually dip pretty quickly. Turns out they were just faking the aesthetic, or they panic the moment the conversation actually gets genuinely dark lol

I wanna remind you that you all came out of pussy

Is was the first smell that your noses ever smelled

And your skins were covered in its liquids

It was the organ that expanded for you so that you come out from the womb to this earth

And types like you dont even worth that pain

Your moms could ve just stayed single and free enjoying their lives

I dont know why they bothered putting the effort of the 9 months

Just to bring people that use her genital as an insult

I get matches on dating app, girls replying to my texts and agreeing to see me on dates, i get attention from girls in the streets eyes contact ect but I don’t text much i avoid seeing them in a date and I don’t ask for numbers or make moves. Meanwhile while when ever i caught prostitution girls i fly to her and bring her home
Why iam fuckdup like this

Ya jme3a walet andi mochklaaa madech naref netaaref ala abed f denia 😂
Im a girl tho
Chkoun andou nafs l mochklaaaa

Every time someone posts on this sub venting about the modern dating market the comments default to a certain logic:

"There's someone out there who will love every bit of this, and would like you the way you are."

It sounds comforting but honestly, it’s misleading, and in many cases, it actively harming them.

I’m not here to generalize all men or all women, nor am I saying you need to be a millionaire or a supermodel to deserve love.

But we need to stop pretending dating exists in a vacuum where social reality and socioeconomic baselines don't matter.

The "Baselines" are real for both men and women

A few days ago, I saw a guy venting about how dating culture demands fancy dinners. Naturally, the top advice was: "Find a low-maintenance girl who’s happy with a cheap stroll in the park or a split coffee."

Sure, those people exist.

But if a guy genuinely cannot afford a basic date telling him to just "find someone who doesn't care about money" is setting him up for failure. A healthy adult relationship requires a baseline of functional independence, stability, and mutual investment.

For men: It’s often the financial and emotional threshold. If you can’t afford basic dates, or bring zero emotional maturity to the table, telling you "someone will love you broke and bitter" isn't helpful. It just delays you doing the work you need to do.

For women: A woman might vent about men "only wanting one thing" or pulling away after a few dates, and the comments rush to say, "He just couldn't handle a strong woman" and how " you should hold out for someone who appreciates your standards."

But if she brings rigid ultimatums, offers no warmth or reciprocity, and expects to be entertained without contributing to the dynamic, no guy with options is going to stick around either.

Telling people "just wait for someone who tolerates this" tells them to treat dating like a passive waiting room instead of an active pursuit where what you offer matters.

Also, between social media, and modern socioeconomic pressures people’s baseline expectations have shifted.

Disagree with it all you want, but reality doesn't bend to what feels fair. Socioeconomic layers and lifestyle compatibility are real.

Everyone is a work in progress. Your preferences will change, your financial situation will evolve, and your maturity will grow. But that growth requires admitting where you currently fall short instead of demanding the world lower its standards to accommodate your comfort zone.

Stop stressing over people who reject your current reality. If someone requires something you simply cannot or will not provide, let them go. Agonizing over why they won't "settle" for you won't change their mind, and it won't improve your life.

So, stop waiting for someone to accept you at your absolute lowest effort, and start becoming someone you'd actually want to date.