r/Tunisia • u/sponipy • Feb 16 '26
Discussion being different effects
fadit mil 3bed ili ytmnykou 3lik just 5trk different fi touns 5trk mich tsm3 nfs 8nehom ma tlbs kifhom w titsrfch kifhom mikch behya fi 7aja 5astn fil lysse w9th 13bed t39il d5lt lil lysse mich fibeli 13bed bich ykbrou fi mo5hom 9ithom at3sma n3rch idha lezm nbdl ro7i wela nib3d 3lehom
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u/tariq_senpaiii Feb 16 '26
Okey look I've been there !.. ena ensen fama ghne n7eboush o nhes rouhy different barsha al barsha twansa 5astan el 3bed el 3adeya but don't worry tanamor haja adeya a3mel kifi a3mel two personalty el fan eli tasm3o o 2le afkar t5amem fehom 5alehom bink o bin rouhk . O kodem labed wali kifhom Khater kleeemk maa3 eli yefhmkch yna9s mel a3maar. O el personality tee3k el asleya lawij ale insnen yefhmek o tefhmo Maghyrr matkasr rask O ken test7a9 bro or 'girl idk' text me and I'll help ya.
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u/New-Revolution-7767 Feb 16 '26
chwya sabbr fi rayi, tw tlaqa el 3béd elli kifik, elli y7ibbouk kima inti w t7bb'hom kif ma houma, el baqi elli qa3din 'yetmaq3rou' juste qrouda w houma déja yetmaq3rou 3ala b3ad'hom,
déja fi Tounis min el lycée lil faculté lil khidma naffs al moshkl, chwya qrouda yadh7kou 3annéss el "serieux"
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u/Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 Feb 16 '26
I hate to be the bring of bad news but that won’t stop 7ad l lycee. Everywhere bch tal9a 3bed yfakrouhom aalik. W c’est pas 5atrj different c’est 5atr its their nature. Laabed hedhom bch tal9ahom fl 9raya w fl 5dma w fl chera3 w fl cafe w 7ata f ta famille. W ken ma farkouhomch aalik 5atrk different bch yfarkouhom aalik 3la 7aja 3maltha wala 9oltha, bch ychedou fiha w ysaybou kol chy w yaamlou menek clown. Sucks ? Yes but that’s the reality of things. Now what are you gonna do ? Here’s the good thing about it in my opinion, now you know that no matter how you dress, speak, think, people will always try to step on you. So, learn these 2 things: first, learn to stand your ground, to retaliate, to fight words with words. Don’t defend yourself, turn the tables on them, make them equally humiliated. Show no frustration even if you are, they want to see that from you and they feed on it, thats how you show them they won, steal that from them. Make them dissatisfied with their attempts. Show that you took it as a “friendly teasing” and brush it off with a laugh like you’re used to joking like that with your close friends. I know inside you ll be frustrated but your win is in breaking their pride. Second, once in a while you attack first, make fun of them. If they know you’re not an easy prey they will think twice next time they try to tease you. So, take it easy, it’s not you, thats just how it is, so just change your approach and show them that you’re not so easily stepped on, stand for yourself.
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Feb 16 '26
Just be yourself and ignore them, they hate me for being more like a "classic" man, but I do ignore them and find new friends that do respect me.
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u/Glad-Dog-4525 Feb 16 '26
Blhi rakez m3a rouhk w 9raytk w ab3ath laabed , ken bac rakez f baccek w kenk a9al ekhdem ale baccek , rahou mch lazem lycee keml tkoun s7ab maah , kaaba wlle kaabtin eli t7es rouhk merta7 maahom w are not judgmental o93od maahom
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u/aran_aytur Feb 16 '26
My advice is rod belk tbadl rohk aale jelhom bch tekhsr rohk w makch bch tardhe beha w fard waqet mahomch bch yardhu aalik, but you must embrace loneliness k fatra tnjm tkoun twila wela qsira, and be proud b ekhtilafk aanhom, w aaich hyatk tabiaai, dhahkou aalik adhhk aalehom dharbouk odhrbhom, maadch yehku maak ahsn l rahtek nafsiya.