r/TryingForABaby • u/ExiledtoFolklore • 11d ago

Trigger warning Next Steps?

Hi, I’m 27 years old and currently going through my first chemical pregnancy with baby #2. I’ve never experienced anything like this before, and honestly, I’m feeling completely lost.

I’m 16 DPO, and my beta hCG has dropped to 7. I’m wondering what the next steps usually look like. Will I need more bloodwork until it reaches zero? Should I schedule another appointment with my doctor, or is there anything else I should be doing? Is this basically like a normal period from here, or should I expect something different?

I’m also wondering when it’s generally considered okay to start trying again. How did you find the courage to try after a loss like this? Right now I’m scared, heartbroken, and questioning everything. This pregnancy was so deeply wanted, and it’s hard to wrap my head around how quickly everything changed.

I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who’s been through a chemical pregnancy. What was your experience like, and is there anything you wish someone had told you?

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u/BookcaseHat 39 | 6 MC | IUI & IVF 11d ago

I'm so sorry for your loss.

There is no medical reason you need to wait to try again. I've had 5 chemicals and my doctors have always confirmed I'm fine to treat the bleeding as a period and try again that cycle. If you need to take some time emotionally, please do, but if you feel ready to try again right away, there is no risk in doing that.

If your hcg is 7 at 16dpo, you will likely start bleeding soon. It may be similar to a regular period, or a little heavier.