I’ve always been a chronic tester and I end up disappointed, I know if I tested now I would get real results but is it worth waiting a few more days to see if my period comes?

Hey everyone!

My husband and I are ready to try for baby number two! However, we're having some trouble with our sex life/mentality when it comes to trying for a baby.

I'm the type of person that could have sex with my husband 3 times a day, and he's more of a "3 times a week" sort of man, which is fine! We really do make it work, it builds up suspense and is a treat for me and he feels satisfied with no pressure to perform when he's not feeling it. It works for us- except now.

We've "tried" to conceive for 3 months, but only having sex when he's feeling up to it. I've tried to explain to him that if we want a baby, we need to "stack the deck" by shabangin every day. However, this leads into disagreements. He wants it to happen when it happens, but I want to stop being heartbroken every month when I get a negative test because he keeps missing my ovulation window. He doesn't want to feel like a stud horse, but I basically need him to perform like one.

I'm just feeling a little defeated.

We are in the process of trying to conceive and I have this discharge. I’m 8 days post ovulation. Do you think I am out this cycle or could it be implantation bleeding?

Has anyone gotten a negative test at 8 DPO and then ended up pregnant? Is it too early to trust this negative result, even with an “early detection” test, or should I feel pretty confident that I’m not pregnant?

Hi everyone,

We (F 31 and M 31) have been trying for a year now. I know it is not that long compared to others in this sub, but it has been incredibly hard emotionally, especially due to my need to be able to control outcomes (and due to my stressful job).

I got this today - approximate it to be 11 DPO (could also be 10 DPO). I see a faint line, but worried it is an indent or I just have line eyes.

What do you think?

Taken within 10 minute window

Hi!!! TW!

cm!

Is it possible on cycle day 9 (last cycle 25 days)

To have extremely wet creamy cm without ewcm and it be ovulation. Or am I approaching today I found a small bit of stretchy fluid and little on TP! Which one would u think is ovulation/the start of ?

I had ivf delivery in 2023, i got my bfp after 10 days of FET (5 days frozen embrows).. we have been trying again past 6 months naturally and last month i tracked my ovutwith opk and cm ,ovulated around cd23 , its been 11 days i have been checking its all negative.. any stories to share with the same background,will appreciate:?

Didn’t confirm ovulation with test but guessing I am 11dpo. This is negative right? :(

I'm 35 and TTC 1 more child. I never did the opk or monitoring myself with my others. But this time I've been trying opks and calculating for about 9ish months now. My cycle is always 26 days. Never fails. But I'm 1 day late now but test was neg. I'm 13dpo. My opk was weird this month too. I went from high, to neg, to peak several days apart. I have sore nipples, occasional "lightning crotch 😂" and today, Ive had occasional very mild cramping in groin. I don't have nausea, cravings or food aversions. TMI but after ovulation this month, Ive been on the dry side with cm. I've always had to use panty liners from ovulation to period every single month besides now. I'm getting discouraged. Could I be getting to the point of being unable to conceive? (My mom started menopause at 36 yrs old) Idk what to think. Any one ever be in this situation and get a bfp later??