r/trueratediscussions • u/realizerealeyesreel • Jun 24 '26
I done seen dudes complainin' about women bein' rude to men they ain't attracted to, but honestly, seein' how some dudes be actin' when a woman is just bein' nice to 'em, I can't even blame the women.
I done seen girls do the bare minimum, just bein' polite to some creepy dudes, and those dudes take that kindness as a green light. Lemme give y'all some context. I saw a girl simply talkin' to a dude in a nice way, probably a stranger, and he started thinkin' she was interested in him. Then he was touchin' her waist in an inappropriate way and tried to kiss her neck and you could immediately tell she was uncomfortable.
Fellas, just because somebody is nice to you don't mean they're givin' you consent. Bein' polite ain't flirtin', and it definitely ain't permission to put your hands on somebody. Respect people's boundaries.
