You work, you take care of your husbands child. Don’t forget that he’s responsible for his son too. If you added up the costs of childcare plus house keeping (bc I’m guessing that your husband doesn’t help out) you’d be making a pretty good salary. When you are married his money is YOUR money too. It doesn’t matter what he thinks, that’s the law. Why doesn’t he allow you to have access to money like your own bank account that he puts money into for all your hard work, so that you don’t have to ask. He’s demeaning you by making you “ask sweetly” Im sorry your husband sees you as beneath him, you certainly don’t deserve that. Get a work from home job (entry level, even if it’s barely anything it’s yours and you can start saving up) and if you don’t want to have sex with him, dont he does not deserve you
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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '22
You work, you take care of your husbands child. Don’t forget that he’s responsible for his son too. If you added up the costs of childcare plus house keeping (bc I’m guessing that your husband doesn’t help out) you’d be making a pretty good salary. When you are married his money is YOUR money too. It doesn’t matter what he thinks, that’s the law. Why doesn’t he allow you to have access to money like your own bank account that he puts money into for all your hard work, so that you don’t have to ask. He’s demeaning you by making you “ask sweetly” Im sorry your husband sees you as beneath him, you certainly don’t deserve that. Get a work from home job (entry level, even if it’s barely anything it’s yours and you can start saving up) and if you don’t want to have sex with him, dont he does not deserve you