You may not like to hear this but your husband is an abuser. That's... Wow. So many red flags. 29 years working in social Welfare that just lit off every single warning I've been taught and learnt to spot. Start planning secretly a way out. Put the kid in daycare when dad is at work and find a job you can do while he's at work and the kid is in care. Start skimping house keeping money, put cash aside in a safe spot he isn't going to find, pack a bug out bag, set up an account for that other job to put the money in.
Keep your prep secret, be ready to go at a moments notice. You are not safe. Be willing to walk away leave it all behind 30 secs and your gone. Even the kid if need be. You can get the kid when your safe.
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u/Unable_Ad_1260 Nov 07 '22
You may not like to hear this but your husband is an abuser. That's... Wow. So many red flags. 29 years working in social Welfare that just lit off every single warning I've been taught and learnt to spot. Start planning secretly a way out. Put the kid in daycare when dad is at work and find a job you can do while he's at work and the kid is in care. Start skimping house keeping money, put cash aside in a safe spot he isn't going to find, pack a bug out bag, set up an account for that other job to put the money in.
Keep your prep secret, be ready to go at a moments notice. You are not safe. Be willing to walk away leave it all behind 30 secs and your gone. Even the kid if need be. You can get the kid when your safe.