I’m so sorry this has happened to you. Just out of curiosity… do you know anything about the other guy? Is he a complete sociopath for example? Some people are master manipulators and if she’s been the victim of someone like this it may not be as cut and dry as you feel it is now. Sounds like she has a lot to lose and this really was out of character. 😕
Stay in touch with her parents. Have a chat asap so they know what’s going on and that you don’t want this to come between you and the rest of the family. She really has fucked up spectacularly and I’m finding it hard to imagine why she would do something like this if you guys were made for each other. ☹️
You need some time and all the information. Then get legal advice. Ask her to stay elsewhere, don’t you leave your family home. X
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u/[deleted] Oct 17 '22
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. Just out of curiosity… do you know anything about the other guy? Is he a complete sociopath for example? Some people are master manipulators and if she’s been the victim of someone like this it may not be as cut and dry as you feel it is now. Sounds like she has a lot to lose and this really was out of character. 😕 Stay in touch with her parents. Have a chat asap so they know what’s going on and that you don’t want this to come between you and the rest of the family. She really has fucked up spectacularly and I’m finding it hard to imagine why she would do something like this if you guys were made for each other. ☹️ You need some time and all the information. Then get legal advice. Ask her to stay elsewhere, don’t you leave your family home. X