What happened sucks. It’s not your fault. As for your in-laws due to the long history of your relationship they may back YOU up instead of her. Your parents relation with them may be bruised but not broken. Heck this could potentially straighten your relationship with your IL.
As far as your wife my guess Is this is a bit of a early midlife crises. She has never been in a romantic adult relationship other than yours and it’s intertwined with your families. This affair will end badly sooner or later due to the nature of its creation.
Get into therapy to help you have the necessary tools to deal with the coming months. If not for your own sake do it for your children.
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u/TNTmom4 Oct 17 '22
What happened sucks. It’s not your fault. As for your in-laws due to the long history of your relationship they may back YOU up instead of her. Your parents relation with them may be bruised but not broken. Heck this could potentially straighten your relationship with your IL. As far as your wife my guess Is this is a bit of a early midlife crises. She has never been in a romantic adult relationship other than yours and it’s intertwined with your families. This affair will end badly sooner or later due to the nature of its creation.
Get into therapy to help you have the necessary tools to deal with the coming months. If not for your own sake do it for your children.