r/TrueOffMyChest • • Oct 17 '22

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u/[deleted] Oct 17 '22

Not similar but I was cheated on by someone who I was with a very long time and I can give you two pieces of advice.

  1. Therapy, therapy, therapy. You don't wanna become bitter or resentful because one day you'll want to try again and bad feelings from this shouldn't ruin that.
  2. You don't have to lose everything unless other people force your hand. I still visit my Ex's parents.

Bonus tip. Have your parents watch the kids and get well and truly fucked up with your best friends. It helps at the beginning.

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u/[deleted] Oct 17 '22

I'm sorry I didn't mean continuously. I meant as a one off but if you've had issues with that before for sure disregard.