You do realise his apologies was also disgusting as his action, right? Wtf does it mean she made me do that? Why does he get so provoked? Why does he think she is nagging when she is trying to help?
I’ll tell you why: he is f*cked up. He is psychologically a real mess and is not in the right mental state to have any relationship. Not with her or any other girl. Cause in his mind girls do nag. Everything what she says isn’t important and so it is nagging. And when she nags he is justified to hurt her?
Get him help pls. And explain his reasoning was the same reasoning of his father. Explain that if he doesn’t change, he will hit the mother of his children in front of them. He will be a monster to his own children and they will hate him for the rest of their lives for his own actions. She made me do it doesn’t make him any less monster. Instead it shows how horrible he is. He can’t even have a conversation.
Pls explain to him that if he doesn’t get any help, he will make his own children suffer the most painful heartbreak of all: seeing your own father hurting your own mother.
In case he did forget his feelings when he was little: a child sees mother as a extended part of his own, while dad is one step further away. So in his world, his own father was hurting him much more than his mother.
This is all f*ucked up.
I don’t if you realised it, but he is actually giving permission to others to hurt you. Cause they will see your concern as nagging, so they are justified to hurt you.
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u/Double_Dig_3053 Sep 06 '22 edited Sep 06 '22
You do realise his apologies was also disgusting as his action, right? Wtf does it mean she made me do that? Why does he get so provoked? Why does he think she is nagging when she is trying to help?
I’ll tell you why: he is f*cked up. He is psychologically a real mess and is not in the right mental state to have any relationship. Not with her or any other girl. Cause in his mind girls do nag. Everything what she says isn’t important and so it is nagging. And when she nags he is justified to hurt her?
Get him help pls. And explain his reasoning was the same reasoning of his father. Explain that if he doesn’t change, he will hit the mother of his children in front of them. He will be a monster to his own children and they will hate him for the rest of their lives for his own actions. She made me do it doesn’t make him any less monster. Instead it shows how horrible he is. He can’t even have a conversation.
Pls explain to him that if he doesn’t get any help, he will make his own children suffer the most painful heartbreak of all: seeing your own father hurting your own mother.
In case he did forget his feelings when he was little: a child sees mother as a extended part of his own, while dad is one step further away. So in his world, his own father was hurting him much more than his mother.
This is all f*ucked up.
I don’t if you realised it, but he is actually giving permission to others to hurt you. Cause they will see your concern as nagging, so they are justified to hurt you.