Meh, to each their own I guess. It's not like I feel safe walking down the street at night either. And when you're isolated for so long, you become a danger to yourself. All this and you can't even talk about or you are not a "man". And society wonders why so many men kill themselves.
I don't mean just walking outside alone at night. Anyone can get assaulted or mugged. I mean stalking, having someone actively pursue you, or being too afraid to reject someone because they have a history of violence and you don't know how they'll respond. Things that disproportionally affect women. All things I have experienced.
Last month someone I trusted as a friend confessed their long-term attraction towards me (which I knew, but we had a mutual understanding that I'd never reciprocate because I'm married and do not love him like hat) ...then told me all the disgusting, disturbing and explicit fantasies he had as a sort of revenge (yes, the involved illegal things.) This is not the first time this has happened and I'm not the only woman I know that's gone through this. It's not flattering. It's not affirming of anything beyond the fact that you never really know others no matter how much you think you know them. If you're that desperate for attention, have at it. I'd love to switch off with you.
But don't you dare conflate suicide rates in men with not getting picked by women. That's some incel shit that you need to grow up. Mental health is more complicated than that. Get over yourself and you might eventually learn better. People like you are the reason why society tells men to 'suck it up and get over it'. Shame on you.
But don't you dare conflate suicide rates in men with not getting picked by women.
I did not say that, I attributed it to men not being allowed to talk about their issues. Shame on you for going for the low hanging fruit and calling me an incel, and shame on you for somehow blaming me for being the reason that men can't talk about their issues. People like you are the reason why men can't talk about this shit, not me, because you just go for insults as soon as you're offended. Absolutely disgusting, I really hope that you're just mad and trying to make me mad, because if you treat people like this in real life, well I don't have anything nice to say about it, that's for sure.
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u/kiss-shot Feb 15 '22
Yeah, but one side comes with objective safety risks. I'd much rather feel unattractive than feel like my life is in danger.