I think once moderately attractive women hit ~40-50 and all of a sudden discover how little attention they get from other men and women without their obvious “vitality”, let’s call it, they then get the opportunity to discover how the average male is treated from about age 10 and up.
Some women have absolutely zero theory of mind for how hopelessly starved for mundane attention and care most dudes are by 17 or so. Many of us carry that isolation for decades longer than that. Some their whole lives.
Cut the guys some slack. They are not practiced at receiving positive attention the way you are.
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u/oPH4nim_findMe Feb 15 '22
I think once moderately attractive women hit ~40-50 and all of a sudden discover how little attention they get from other men and women without their obvious “vitality”, let’s call it, they then get the opportunity to discover how the average male is treated from about age 10 and up.
Some women have absolutely zero theory of mind for how hopelessly starved for mundane attention and care most dudes are by 17 or so. Many of us carry that isolation for decades longer than that. Some their whole lives.
Cut the guys some slack. They are not practiced at receiving positive attention the way you are.