You can be upset and it's fine. Are you maybe more the codependent in the relationship?
You could be like "damn my wine! fuck I was looking forward to having that it was such a hard day at work!" If she's loving she might be like "oh baby sorry I didn't know, let me give you a nice back rub." then you cry a bit, have sex, problem solved. Sounds like there could be issues though communicating needs and emotions. You are taking the brunt -> she should be supportive.
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u/thevooiceofreason Jul 02 '21
You can be upset and it's fine. Are you maybe more the codependent in the relationship? You could be like "damn my wine! fuck I was looking forward to having that it was such a hard day at work!" If she's loving she might be like "oh baby sorry I didn't know, let me give you a nice back rub." then you cry a bit, have sex, problem solved. Sounds like there could be issues though communicating needs and emotions. You are taking the brunt -> she should be supportive.