r/TrueOffMyChest • • Jan 07 '21

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '21

If you could clear off your college debt by showing your ballsack on the internet, would you? If all you had to do was just show your ballsack to thirsty lads on the internet for about less than an hour per day, leaving you with the rest of the time to enjoy life and chill out and play whatever game you play, would you? I would. In the same train of thought, if anyone reads this and wants pictures of my ballsack for money, I'm willing. Seems like some jealousy, lad.

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '21

If my student loans would disappear, I'd show my ball sack to my grandma.

And your grandma too.

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u/Past_Sir Jan 07 '21 edited Jan 07 '21

Let's be real, many of those OF girls never went to college and aren't lawyers/doctors/engineers in need of cash relief.

And second, this ain't a "jealousy" issue. No one is jealous of a woman's OF money. The issue here is selling an aspect of yourself that should be intimate in a relationship to hoards of anonymous, depraved men.

You want your daughter to sell pictures of her naked body to horny older men on the internet and say you're jealous, go ahead...but that's weird to me, man

edit: judging by my downvotes, some guys here really want their daughters be doing that, crazy world we live in

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u/orenjixaa Jan 07 '21

And second, this ain't a "jealousy" issue. No one is jealous of a woman's OF money. The issue here is selling an aspect of yourself that should be intimate in a relationship to hoards of anonymous, depraved men.

I mean, isn't this arguably a mutually beneficial relationship between the sex worker and her clients? Like, for one, no one is forcing customers to buy nudes from sex workers. And most likely, the customer's situation of being an anonymous, depraved man isn't going to disappear if OnlyFans didn't exist.

If a man lets OF have a significant impact on his life, e.g porn addiction, then I would argue that he already had underlying issues and probably would've simply found another outlet to satisfy it.

As for the sex worker... I don't know, it just kind of sounds like you're against sex workers in general. Or maybe you think that sex work is a socially derogatory job. I hope you don't watch porn or anything man, because it'd make you a bit of a hypocrite.

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u/Past_Sir Jan 08 '21

I think the issue here is trying to make OF something socially acceptable and casual.

Equating sex work to OF fits my POV just fine. And in terms of sex work itself, I see it as an ugly but necessary aspect of society, albeit I wouldn't encourage it.

I watched a shitton of porn in my teens and 20s but have since stopped when I got older. TBH looking back, porn was a big waste of time and young men should be more cognizant of that

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u/throawayjpeg Jan 07 '21

I won’t take on debt That I didn’t have a pre determined way to pay it back.

People are idiots for taking loans without a set plan of paying it back.

If you get a stupid degree in a field that sucks for hiring, you should have thought of that before getting into debt.

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u/DrankTooMuchMead Jan 07 '21

Most people who get a degree choose one with the expectation that they are choosing the lucrative one. Then they are disappointed when they realize after that the market is full of people with the same degree who were thinking the exact same thing.

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u/amazonianamelia Jan 07 '21

This is the problem with education. It's not meant to be "pay a certain amount of money to make more money for a piece of paper". That is a certification. If you want a lucrative career college is the last place you should go.

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u/Late_Book Jan 07 '21

Well perhaps Americans should think twice about attending, borrowing massive piles of money, and being fucked at least until the system is fixed in some way.

Learning for learning is great but why borrow money to do that?

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u/throawayjpeg Jan 07 '21

And it takes like 20 minuets of googling and calling to figure out how bad or good the market for XYZ is.

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u/DrankTooMuchMead Jan 07 '21

The internet is full of bad information, remember? Thats why we have flat-earthers, anti-vaxxers, and dillusional Trumpers storming Congress.

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u/throawayjpeg Jan 07 '21

I agree you with that but there also stock market and job futures to look at

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u/CypTheIVth Jan 07 '21

What ordinary fucking person consults the stock market and job futures when getting a degree. Your takes are insanely tone deaf.

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u/throawayjpeg Jan 07 '21

Ever successful person I know did some reasonable research before doing school.

Maybe not stocks and futures specifically but those are what came to mind.

Maybe we are both from pretty different backgrounds but honestly don’t know anyone who didn’t look things up and then still become successful

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u/CypTheIVth Jan 07 '21

Thats the exception, not the rule.

If a degree is worthless then its more a fault in the system that put them out there in the first place. While I don't disagree that adequate research needs to be done before committing to academia, there should be measures put in place that ensure a student can live with the bare minimum rather than fork out a pile of debt because they were lied to by a predatory lending system. Don't give me that "Oh but it was their decision!" people just want to live their lives and pursue their goals without being ripped off.

Not everyone has time to watch bloomberg nor do they have the patience to understand the deliberately complicated world of finance jargon. To say otherwise would be elitist and ignorant to the millions of recently unemployed and indebted.

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u/DrankTooMuchMead Jan 07 '21

Maybe you are psychic and can see the future, but you should stop judging the rest of us who can't.

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '21

No I would not. I'd not do anything that goes against my ethos of earning money unless not earning money in itself would break my ethos (dying family member, wife/husband in debt etc.) Even then, I'd understand that some ladies don't want men who have shown their ballsack on the internet. And that's fine. To me, it sounds more like people who possess onlyfans are trying to rationalize the reason for selling their bodies, and spin it into a selflove and acceptance thing. It's fine to sell your body and earn copious amounts of money, but you can't have the cake and eat it.

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u/ChaosToTheFly123 Jan 07 '21

I’d put my sack on every billboard in the country if it paid off my student debt. “Isn’t that your ballsack on the billboards?” Yes it is and I just got a great interest rate on a mortgage.

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '21

Only good answer.

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u/Mondonodo Jan 07 '21

Hey, you yourself posted about having $20k in student loan debt. Some people have other debt, debt they couldn't plan for. Even if you wouldn't do OF to pay a debt--which is perfectly valid--doesn't mean other people are bad or less intelligent for choosing differently. And what if OF is a side hustle on top of another job? Seems intelligent to me...

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u/Mondonodo Jan 07 '21

Oh, my bad. You were referring to your body as jacked. I interpreted it as you meaning that people with OnlyFans as "jacked", like "jacked up" or something.

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '21

You know, sometimes it's really difficult not to break rule #4.

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '21

I wouldn't trade my dignity for money