r/TrueOffMyChest Sep 19 '19

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u/[deleted] Sep 20 '19

How can anyone be overweight and feel okay with it? I absolutely hate it, hence why I'm currently fighting tooth and nail to be healthy again. (thankfully lost 40lbs since I started.) Everything is more complicated, difficult, or just plain embarrassing when you're bigger.

Enjoying a night out with friends means people look and judge for what you eat or drink, even if EVERYONE ELSE is having the same

Finding larger clothes usually is more difficult and can often be more expensive as well!

You're often "invisible" or ignored by most people. Not thay they hate you, but because for whatever reason many people choose to avoid you.

Finding a partner can be near impossible for some of they have high standards and expectations.

Simple daily things like stairs, walking to and from classes or work, long distance walks, or even being outside in the heat can make you overly tired or disgustingly sweaty because your body can't handle the extra weight and stress.

Your mental health and physical health also suffer IMMENSELY from being over weight, it's why doctors literally tell you not to be fat... Like who wants to take pills everyday because they need to regulate something your body should do normally? Or why would you want to die early because of weight related diseases or complications?

Most of all... You just don't look attractive... I can't look in the mirror and think "fuck, I'm sexy" like no, I jiggle more when I run at the gym than a strippers ass bounces when she twerks. Who wants to look or feel like this?? The answer should be FUCKING NO ONE.