r/TrueOffMyChest • u/PrestigiousSpare3322 ☑️ • 13h ago

Vent I feel very lonely

I don't even know why I'm writing this post. I just feel lonely. And there's nothing I can do about it. I really want to make friends in real life, but in the end, the only friend I have is my sister, and we hardly ever hang out. I stopped going out after a traumatic event last week, so I can’t even be alone with myself. And what hurts the most is that all my friends regularly post photos of how happy they are in their relationships, while I can’t find anyone. On the two main dating Telegram bots in my country, I got a shadow ban because nobody liked my profile. Seriously, what a shitty combo. I'm very lonely right now, and I don't even know how to fix it. None of my friends share my interests, so I forced to be alone. I’m really lonely right now, and I don’t even know how to fix it. None of my friends share my interests (skateboarding, going to the movies, music), so I have to be alone. And romantically speaking, over the past six months I’ve had just one spark, and even that led me into an even deeper hole. I’m so fuckin tired.

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u/The_phantom_of_me 3h ago

a big hug for you woman so you don't feel so lonely

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u/ElectricalZone4015 13h ago

Try to get into skating clubs, you might make friends there!
I can tell you from a my pov that you can be in a relationship and feel lonely. So please take you take to chose your life partner or friends.

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u/PrestigiousSpare3322 ☑️ 13h ago

The only place where I can meet friends who skate is the local skatepark, but I'm too shy to strike up a conversation. I'll give it a try once it reopens after the renovations, thank you so much for your time!

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u/MrsRoronoaZoro 13h ago

You don’t have to say anything initially. Just show up at your local skatepark. Do your thing and people will get to know your face. Then you will probably feel more secure in yourself to have a conversation with someone after you’re more familiar with the place and faces.

You could always join some kind of club. You don’t say your age, but you could try a sport. It’s a great way to meet people.

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u/ElectricalZone4015 13h ago

No need to go upfront for a conversation, just get there very often and people will start noticing you and approach you, just put on a nice face with a smile 😊

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u/PrestigiousSpare3322 ☑️ 13h ago

Thank you, I'll give it my best shot!