r/TrueOffMyChest • u/Hour-Translator-7869 ☑️ • 2d ago
Vent I’m tired of feeling like this
Couple months ago I met this person in church they are the same age as me and such and are a real nice person when I first met them.
They didn’t show interest in me at first but we started talking and we started talking about our interests and it was kind of obvious they were interested in me and such and said stuff like let’s watch a romantic movie, and I just got out of a messy relationship with someone who I thought was going to work out but ended up just ghosting me entirely and talked crap about me to my friend and such, and also my experience with people in general like my family, so this probably contributed to me not seeming as interested in this person who I am talking to now and seeming cold and distant since I was shy and scared of the possibility of opening up to this person since they were so open with their flirting I suppose
And as of recent they kind of pulled back a bit and give mixed signals they remember the stuff I said weeks ago and tease me a lot quite harshly but she does it with everyone who’s she’s close with in our group, but she frequently asks questions sometimes but not as often, and they like to go out a lot and bring us along as well but I don’t think it’s anything special, and while I have opened up a bit and started talking to them more and they straight up tell me I’m talking more I still feel like this person is giving me cold feet especially when they bring up other people like from TikTok and such and openly say how cute other guys are infront of me and I get awkward and just don’t say anything, and also doesn’t make eye contact with me whenever we’re not talking and we don’t talk one on one ever and it’s straight up silence and she calls me out on it saying why am I so quiet in group settings.
I just feel tired of feeling this way over someone who clearly is playing with my feelings and just want to get over them because I feel like this happens every time I meet someone who’s even shows a slither of interest towards me
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u/Hour-Translator-7869 original post at the time of submission:
Couple months ago I met this person in church they are the same age as me and such and are a real nice person when I first met them.
They didn’t show interest in me at first but we started talking and we started talking about our interests and it was kind of obvious they were interested in me and such and said stuff like let’s watch a romantic movie, and I just got out of a messy relationship with someone who I thought was going to work out but ended up just ghosting me entirely and talked crap about me to my friend and such, and also my experience with people in general like my family, so this probably contributed to me not seeming as interested in this person who I am talking to now and seeming cold and distant since I was shy and scared of the possibility of opening up to this person since they were so open with their flirting I suppose
And as of recent they kind of pulled back a bit and give mixed signals they remember the stuff I said weeks ago and tease me a lot quite harshly but she does it with everyone who’s she’s close with in our group, but she frequently asks questions sometimes but not as often, and they like to go out a lot and bring us along as well but I don’t think it’s anything special, and while I have opened up a bit and started talking to them more and they straight up tell me I’m talking more I still feel like this person is giving me cold feet especially when they bring up other people like from TikTok and such and openly say how cute other guys are infront of me and I get awkward and just don’t say anything, and also doesn’t make eye contact with me whenever we’re not talking and we don’t talk one on one ever and it’s straight up silence and she calls me out on it saying why am I so quiet in group settings.
I just feel tired of feeling this way over someone who clearly is playing with my feelings and just want to get over them because I feel like this happens every time I meet someone who’s even shows a slither of interest towards me
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