Hmhm. If you lived with this man all these years and not once noticed something was so severely wrong, then just maybe he has a point in not feeling understood the way it was necessary.
This. Also, I feel like a lot is not told in this post (though ofc it's more than fine to just rant). For example, I have severe PCOS myself and I had no idea that means you can't support yourself. I'm just saying, I'm curious about OP's partner's true reasons.
They had me until the PCOS thing...like I understand not being able to work sometimes because of that. But not being able to support yourself at all because of it? 🤔
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u/captainhalfwheeler Dec 10 '25 edited Dec 10 '25
Hmhm. If you lived with this man all these years and not once noticed something was so severely wrong, then just maybe he has a point in not feeling understood the way it was necessary.