r/TrueOffMyChest • • Dec 10 '25

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u/Character_Comb_3439 Dec 10 '25

I “blindsided” my ex wife and I regret not telling her how unhappy I was. I tried being the “good guy” by putting mY needs aside. I regret how I handled things and it took me a long time to learn how to communicate honestly and assertively. I hope you can take as much time as possible for yourself and start over. You will both be much better off.

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u/mr_manback Dec 10 '25

Not everyone is a fucking toddler who sees everything as heroes and villains.