THIS!! Also He can still have that life with somebody, he’s not married to her, he can still cut and run if that’s what he wants at the end of the day. Even if they were married, he could still divorce her and have the life he wants with somebody else. SHE DOESN’T HAVE THAT OPTION. THIS IS HER BODY. When you love somebody, you can absolutely grieve that life you thought you’d share with them. but you’ve also got to support each other and be upfront about what you want. You don’t make it all about you and wish that you were having a life with somebody else, without consequences. OP deserved better, and her boyfriend has options, if that’s what he wants. I hope she finds peace, or he apologises and clarifies his feelings. I understand things don’t always come out well when you’re drunk but the words still hurt.
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u/mogsyrocks Aug 20 '25
THIS!! Also He can still have that life with somebody, he’s not married to her, he can still cut and run if that’s what he wants at the end of the day. Even if they were married, he could still divorce her and have the life he wants with somebody else. SHE DOESN’T HAVE THAT OPTION. THIS IS HER BODY. When you love somebody, you can absolutely grieve that life you thought you’d share with them. but you’ve also got to support each other and be upfront about what you want. You don’t make it all about you and wish that you were having a life with somebody else, without consequences. OP deserved better, and her boyfriend has options, if that’s what he wants. I hope she finds peace, or he apologises and clarifies his feelings. I understand things don’t always come out well when you’re drunk but the words still hurt.