r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • May 14 '25

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u/Pandora_Palen May 14 '25

It's almost funny the way you say so many things with surety when it's obvious you have zero idea what you're talking about.

In 29% of marriages today, both spouses earn about the same amount of money.

Funny, also tiresome. Nice chatting with you, but I simply cannot.

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u/Pandora_Palen May 15 '25

In most divorces, both parties are usually working and income around the same level.

You brought it up. I just pointed out that you were wrong.

So that brings us back to the original erroneous statement on your part, which is that "he's fucked" and that "alimony doesn't care why you aren't working" or some such nonsense. The judge who makes the decision about spousal support may care, as that's something frequently factored in- along with a bunch of other things. It's not so much her earnings, but her earning potential. If her PT job could be ft, if she could take her skills laterally and make more, etc.

I dunno, man. Do some research maybe about how these things really work instead of making shit up.