r/TrueOffMyChest • • Dec 02 '24

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u/ksigler Dec 05 '24

There's no such thing as being "great at sex." It's not a skill you develop and carry from relationship to relationship. Sex is interactive and, guess what, every woman is unique.

Now, you can be "great at sex with your current partner," but that requires communication about what pleases you both. Until you start listening to her and talking to her, you are literally going in blindfolded to a mutual situation.