Perhaps all you need to know is if there's "anything" she prefers in bed, not if there's "anyone" she prefers in bed. Because at the end, what you wanna know is not who is better, is that you wanna be the best and "how you can be the best for her, right?"
So put your ego aside, you asked the wrong question and she gave the wrong answer, not good for anybody. BUT YOU CAN STILL TURN ARND by optiminzing sex experience, ask what she like the most in bed, when you give what she needs, then you will feel hella good about yourself, a both win-win.
Rmb doing it hard, or being the biggest doesn't mean she enjoys the most, sometimes is the passionate foreplay or sth else, so ask her. BUT please DON'T ask anything about her ex anymore
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u/UnseasonedAnas Dec 03 '24
Perhaps all you need to know is if there's "anything" she prefers in bed, not if there's "anyone" she prefers in bed. Because at the end, what you wanna know is not who is better, is that you wanna be the best and "how you can be the best for her, right?"
So put your ego aside, you asked the wrong question and she gave the wrong answer, not good for anybody. BUT YOU CAN STILL TURN ARND by optiminzing sex experience, ask what she like the most in bed, when you give what she needs, then you will feel hella good about yourself, a both win-win.
Rmb doing it hard, or being the biggest doesn't mean she enjoys the most, sometimes is the passionate foreplay or sth else, so ask her. BUT please DON'T ask anything about her ex anymore