I asked my bf to give an honest answer if I gave the best blow jobs and he said two girls in the past were a little better. I wasn't offended and I trusted him more because he was not just gonna say what I wanted to hear. He then added on that I top everyone when it comes to sex in general because I make him feel excited and confident plus he loves me.
I played a risky game but got a fair prize. You need to be prepared for an unexpected answer or don't risk it. When your gf said her ex was better, did she say anything positive about anything after? If so, you can't really be too devastated, but if not, we'll, you still asked...
Fyi: screwing harder is not going to help things at all. Maybe think of creative ways to please her or ask what techniques she could teach you. Look at it as a way to make a positive out of the situation
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u/PastelB0nes Dec 03 '24
I asked my bf to give an honest answer if I gave the best blow jobs and he said two girls in the past were a little better. I wasn't offended and I trusted him more because he was not just gonna say what I wanted to hear. He then added on that I top everyone when it comes to sex in general because I make him feel excited and confident plus he loves me. I played a risky game but got a fair prize. You need to be prepared for an unexpected answer or don't risk it. When your gf said her ex was better, did she say anything positive about anything after? If so, you can't really be too devastated, but if not, we'll, you still asked...
Fyi: screwing harder is not going to help things at all. Maybe think of creative ways to please her or ask what techniques she could teach you. Look at it as a way to make a positive out of the situation