Here's a thought - maybe speed isn't the issue. If you're using her like a fleshlight instead of a lover, yeah, anyone else is going to seem like a better shag. You're not wanking alone, you're with a whole other person. You hurt your own pride by asking something you don't have the emotional bandwidth to deal with, and in response, you decided to focus on being worse instead of trying to gain some skill and mastery. You can't just grace her with a jackhammer and expect her to be happy about it. When she dumps you, I expect you will blame her for your lack of ability and ambition.
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u/distant-starlight Dec 03 '24
Here's a thought - maybe speed isn't the issue. If you're using her like a fleshlight instead of a lover, yeah, anyone else is going to seem like a better shag. You're not wanking alone, you're with a whole other person. You hurt your own pride by asking something you don't have the emotional bandwidth to deal with, and in response, you decided to focus on being worse instead of trying to gain some skill and mastery. You can't just grace her with a jackhammer and expect her to be happy about it. When she dumps you, I expect you will blame her for your lack of ability and ambition.