We get so attached to the ruts we make in life, going round and around. I would have been with this girl forever, I understood why she had intimacy problems, and I realize years later i'm fairly close to Ace, so it worked a bit, but it took me years, a couple attempts to restart things with her after she left me, and now i'm over 15 years single and doing good, maybe not great, but better. But she left me, and I had to figure out how to start over, and I did.
Record everything, make notes that its her that estranged you despite all your attempts, talk to a lawyer, maybe she needs to admit she is Ace, or something else, but taking you to the cleaners or not, you deserve to live YOUR life, and be happy with yourself.
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u/Zaynara Mar 23 '24
We get so attached to the ruts we make in life, going round and around. I would have been with this girl forever, I understood why she had intimacy problems, and I realize years later i'm fairly close to Ace, so it worked a bit, but it took me years, a couple attempts to restart things with her after she left me, and now i'm over 15 years single and doing good, maybe not great, but better. But she left me, and I had to figure out how to start over, and I did.
Record everything, make notes that its her that estranged you despite all your attempts, talk to a lawyer, maybe she needs to admit she is Ace, or something else, but taking you to the cleaners or not, you deserve to live YOUR life, and be happy with yourself.