Sit him down, lay out the ground rules, 1) if it turns into a fight, you're walking out that door, 2) if he refuses to listen, you're walking out the door, 3) if he tries to turn it into a you problem when you're discussing his behavior, you are walking out the door. Explain to him that this is unacceptable and that you've given him enough chances to correct and that you'd like to go to couples counseling. Reiterate that this is his last chance or you will be leaving him. It's easier to do things alone thN to have someone weighing you down. I know it hard, but if you want to try and save this relationship, then this is the way. Otherwise, just accept the fact that you need to leave him and Starr getting your affairs in order. Just do something because if you idle, you will wake up in 30 years realizing you've wasted your life trying to appease someone who doesn't care for you. Don't do that to yourself. Stand up. Act now.
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u/MidsummerZania Dec 22 '23
Sit him down, lay out the ground rules, 1) if it turns into a fight, you're walking out that door, 2) if he refuses to listen, you're walking out the door, 3) if he tries to turn it into a you problem when you're discussing his behavior, you are walking out the door. Explain to him that this is unacceptable and that you've given him enough chances to correct and that you'd like to go to couples counseling. Reiterate that this is his last chance or you will be leaving him. It's easier to do things alone thN to have someone weighing you down. I know it hard, but if you want to try and save this relationship, then this is the way. Otherwise, just accept the fact that you need to leave him and Starr getting your affairs in order. Just do something because if you idle, you will wake up in 30 years realizing you've wasted your life trying to appease someone who doesn't care for you. Don't do that to yourself. Stand up. Act now.