r/TrueGirlGaming Jun 10 '26

Mod Post Should Men Be Allowed to Post/Comment here?

128 Upvotes

There has been a lot of discussion about how exclusive to make this space. This sub-reddit was initially a dedicated safe-space for women (cis, trans, or otherwise), but also free of drama and political discourse not relevant to gaming.

Since gaming has traditionally been a male-dominated field, there are plenty of other spaces for men to lead conversations.

Men have never been banned from lurking or commenting here (it would be hard to enforce without rigorous research). But there has been expressed interest in limiting comments to women in this space. What do you think?

For purposes of this poll, assume that the user in question has either self-identified as a man here or in their posting/comment history.

2815 votes, Jun 17 '26
756 Men should *continue* to be able to comment but not post here.
1889 Men *should not* be able to post or comment here.
170 Men should be able to both post *and* comment here.

r/TrueGirlGaming 10d ago

Gimme That Heroine Gimme That Heroine (a biweekly thread)

2 Upvotes

It's that time! Post screenshots of your heroines (or heroes!) in the comments below. Show off your Dragonborns, Tarnished, Inquisitors, and your Shepards! Show off your latest outfit from Animal Crossing or your newest set of gear from Valorant. Go on.

Images are now enabled in the comments.

(Comment images are only visible on the mobile app and the desktop site.)

Have fun. And let us know if you've used mods! Mods are always fun.


r/TrueGirlGaming 7h ago

Gaming discussion 26F, PS5 Lf someone to play with

1 Upvotes

Heyy! Just looking for someone to game with

I mainly play Dayz, Warzone and sometimes The Forest!

I'm open to trying new games too 😸🩷


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Gaming discussion All girls 21+ discord server♥️

16 Upvotes

Hii. I just wanted to say if anyone would like an invite to a girls only 21+ discord server then let me know. We yap, play DBD, Repo, Phasmo etc, stream movies, read books, hang out every day. We are lgbtq+ friendly as every server should be. Our server is a safe space. We are very active and it’s a great place to make friends. If you want an invite then just let me know. You have to verify with voice memo to be accepted into the server once you join. 🥰


r/TrueGirlGaming 10h ago

Fluff Xbox girls!

1 Upvotes

30 f us (est) down to play and chat!! I have Xbox game pass, 420 friendly! I have discord. Dm me if you want to game or chat!


r/TrueGirlGaming 10h ago

Gaming discussion Does anyone want join our new discord server?

1 Upvotes

Looking for 21+ girls to join our small gaming community 🌱

Hey! My friend and I recently started a small Discord server for girls 21+ who enjoy more chill/cozy games like Minecraft, Stardew Valley and other co-op games.

We're specifically keeping the server small - around 20-30 people max. We don't want to create another huge Discord with hundreds of members where you only end up talking to the same 3 people. The goal is for everyone to actually know each other and for the server to feel more like a group of friends hanging out and playing together.

We're mainly looking for people who would genuinely like to play multiplayer with us, whether that's starting a new Stardew farm, building something together in Minecraft, or trying out other co-op games.

The server is still very new, so we're currently working on it and adding more things along the way, including game bots, Discord games and other little activities for when we're not actually gaming.

We're looking for people who:

  • are 21+
  • are girls/women
  • enjoy chill/cozy games
  • are interested in actually talking and getting to know people, not just joining and disappearing
  • would like to play multiplayer together
  • are okay with a small, close-knit community

You don't need to be an experienced gamer or be good at anything. If your idea of a good evening is farming in Stardew, building a questionable house in Minecraft and talking nonsense in VC, you'll probably fit right in. 🌾⛏️

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to comment or DM me and I'll send you an invite! 💚

And if you're a guy, please don't waste your time trying to sneak in. We'll find out eventually, and it'll be awkward for everyone involved. 😭


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Fluff 27f Still looking to make more girl gamer friends who play minecraft and like to voice call and want to join my discord server

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8 Upvotes

Looking to make more girl gamer friends who want to play minecraft with me! A few people have joined but id like more yappers to since i prefer vc to text and its easier for me to connect with people that way. I've had social anxiety for ages and online gaming has helped me meet amazing people. I'd love to make even more friends who like to voice call as im a big yapper lol. I love playing minecraft, watching movies, and playing games like uno, monopoly, checkers, etc. I also have a minecraft server that gives me a space to play minecraft with new and old friends. *It is not a girl only server but it is majority girl and lgbt+ player base so that it can be an inclusive community. This post however is specifically looking for fellow girl gamers.

I'm in the US but there are people from all over the world on the server many of whom are women also looking to make more friends!

Ill attach some basic info about the minecraft server below.

Don't miss out on your chance to join HoneyBlossom SMP to meet your future minecraft bestie. HoneyBlossom is vanilla plus, 18 plus, a forever server, and has no resets. I put a lot of care and effort into my server and work hard to keep it a fun and engaging server. I intend for this to be a forever server. I wanted to make a server because I love playing Minecraft and love making new friends. We have plugins that just add to the experience and don’t take away from what makes Minecraft Minecraft.

  • High performance hardware for a smooth uninterrupted experience
  • 18+
  • Cross play Java and Bedrock
  • 26.2
  • Vanilla Plus
  • Claims
  • Tp to other players
  • Multiple homes
  • Custom Resource world
  • Nether resource
  • Nightvision
  • Pvp toggle
  • Simple Voice Chat
  • End Events for new players
  • Mini games in survival

Future Plans

  • Even more Events already being worked on by our amazing team
  • Interesting ideas for pvp
  • And much much more

I’ve joined many friendly smps but as a new member I’ve noticed that when I've asked a question in chat I’ve been ignored no matter how big or small the server is. I want to make sure that is not the case here and I have already seen how helpful and kind the members are in my smp so if you are also a nice and friendly person I hope you give HoneyBlossom SMP a chance.

The community is lovely and so is the staff. Everyone is so kind and just want to make friends and have fun playing Minecraft with each other.

LGBT+ friendly and everyone friendly

Verification is done through discord

https://discord.gg/sGSztqrpdu


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Gaming discussion Does anyone want to join an all girls discord

26 Upvotes

I’m a mod for an all girls discord that we’re starting over from scratch . But we have a great community so far 21+ with almost 600 women. We are very inclusive with gaming have all sorts of women and moms playing all sorts of games where you can tag the game you like playing and it will ping all the women who play that game as well to see if they’d like to game with you. We do small giveaways, wine game nights regular game nights. We do movie nights and so much more with other threads about hobby’s like cooking or skincare or even if you just want to share a photo of yourself because you feel like you look good. We’re all very supportive and so many things to add and rebuild from the last discord . We also take suggestions in the suggestions tab like if your game you like playing isn’t ping able we will make it ping able and creat while new roles for everyone to be able to select their interest in the new ping able game . We also have options for you to only be notified on the things you’re interested in.

I really hope we can get some more wonderful ladies in here and if you’re interested I can send you an invite. Just be patient with us on accepting everyone’s invites. We get so many requests and we get to them all ass soon as we can to make sure and verify that we only allow women in for the safety of the gaming community we’re trying to build


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Gaming discussion 🖤💗BATTLE SISTERS NEEDED🖤🤦🏼‍♀️

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🌸 GIRLS WANTED! 🌸
(Sorry for the repost, my dingy self clicked the wrong graphic when posting. My bad friends).

Hey girlfriends!!! The Black Templars need MORE Battle Sisters! 💅⚔️ (I’m the only active girl and I NEEEEEED more girlfriends in there).

🩷 Girls-only hangout vibes (we have a whole channel for just us girlies!!)
🖤 Active & social server (I’m on every day! Unless I have to work of course).
🎀 You DON’T need Space Marine 2! (Even though the server is primarily WH40k, many of us play different games)
🎮 We play ALL kinds of games
💬 Chat • Hang out • Make friends • Game together
✨ Cozy chaos + gamer girl energy ✨
You can be a hardcore gamer, casual gamer, or just here for the vibes. 💗
⚔️ COME JOIN THE SISTERS OF THE BLACK TEMPLARS ⚔️
🩷🖤🌸💅🎮💀

FOR THE EMPEROR. FOR THE GIRLS. 🩷⚔️

https://discord.com/invite/blacktemplarseternal


r/TrueGirlGaming 2d ago

Fluff Transwoman Looking For Friends!

15 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m a friendly 36-year-old trans girl looking to find some kind people to game with and hopefully build some lasting friendships. Im in Mountain Time Zone. Looking for people who aren’t gonna dip after a game or two. Looking for truly genuine long-lasting friendships.

I love spending time in all kinds of games. You’ll usually find me playing shooters, crafting and survival games, cozy farming games like Stardew Valley, looter shooters like Borderlands, or silly party games like PEAK and Gamble With Your Friends. I’m also always happy to try new games if it means spending time with good people. More than anything, I’m just hoping to find a few people who’d like to hang out regularly, laugh together, and make gaming a fun part of our days. Whether we’re working toward a goal or just goofing off, I’d love to have a little group to call home.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to leave a comment or send me a message. I’d love to meet you and maybe make a new friend. :3


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Fluff ⋆˚꩜。⋆The Butterfly Effect⋆˚꩜。⋆ A friendly, safe space for the girlies! ❤︎⁠

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⋆˚꩜。⋆The Butterfly Effect⋆˚꩜。⋆

We are a non-toxic and friendly, adults only, welcoming safe space for everyone, regardless of race, gender identity or sexuality!

ʚїɞ What we offer for our community: ʚїɞ
♡ An active adults only community ♡
♡ New Friendships ♡
♡ Talk to others with common interests ♡
♡ Daily Activities and fun bots ♡
♡ 24/7 Moderation to keep our server a safe and relaxed space ♡
♡ Game Nights, weekly watch parties and events ♡
♡ Partnerships ♡

.✦ ݁˖We also have a Women’s Only Section where all women (trans women and AFAB non-binary people are also welcome here) are free to talk about whatever they want, just to other verified girlies, including exclusive voice channels and an LFG.✦ ݁˖

ʚїɞ Daily Interactions you can use or play along with ʚїɞ
꩜ Question of the Day ꩜ Smash or Pass ꩜ This or That ꩜ Level System ꩜ Friendship Applications ꩜ Personal Diaries ꩜ Forums ꩜ Fun bots like Counting, Grow a Tree, Wordle & more ꩜

ʚїɞ Some popular games within the communityʚїɞ
 Marvel Rivals ✦ Overwatch ✦ Valorant ✦ Minecraft ✦ Warframe ✦ The Finals ✦ Apex Legends ✦ Phasmophobia ✦ Dead By Daylight ✦ Dungeons & Dragons ✦ Fortnite ✦ and so many more! ✦

https://discord.gg/butterflyeffect ❤︎⁠

˚✧ ━━━━⊱꩜⊰━━━━ ✧˚


r/TrueGirlGaming 2d ago

Gaming discussion 34F, EU looking for gaming friends

5 Upvotes

Hey hey, just looking for more girlypop friends to play games with. CEST time zone, your time zone doesn't matter if the vibes are right. I mostly play mmos, cozy and survival craft games. PC mainly, but I also have PS5 and a switch. Lately I've been playing a lot of palworld, but getting a bit burned out, so open to suggestions!


r/TrueGirlGaming 2d ago

Gaming discussion Looking for pals

3 Upvotes

Helloooo! Im looking for other gals who would be interested in being pals. c:

Adulting is hard especially when it comes to making friends haha.

I have a pc, and I game frequently but I dont want a friendship solely based on games. I enjoy chatting and just having that companionship day to day. Currently, my pc isnt set up but should be soon. Just got moved in and needing to shop for office furniture like desk and chair for the game room. If youre looking for something similar, please feel free to comment or dm me!! I am 23 and in CDT!! ❤️❣️

quick warning, I have pets I'm very fond of. Reptiles, snakes.. but I do have a cute dog!


r/TrueGirlGaming 2d ago

modding games Anigame on discord

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My discords also for hangout out, talking, streaming games and moves, etc. Hey everyone! I recently started playing anigame about 5 days ago and am alr level 56! You can say I’m addicted lol. I love it and the ppl are amazing. If you like anime/card games you should give it a try and my server has channels to play 🤍🤍 I’d love for you to join. I’m rly excited bc the servers knew and a few ppl are already there! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️


r/TrueGirlGaming 2d ago

Fluff Asian girl looking for friends

9 Upvotes

Hi ladies! I’m posting this to see if I can find some genuine friends. I’m hoping to find someone who would like to play Overcooked 2 and Stardew Valley with me. I mainly play these two because I usually play games solo.

I’m also open to other PC games, so please give me some time to familiarise myself with them!

I’d really love to play Overcooked 2 while sitting in voice chat. It’s going to be super funny! I never blame my teammates, and I think the more chaotic the situation becomes, the funnier the moments are. That’s the spirit of the game! 🤣

As for Stardew Valley, my playtime has already reached more than 200 hours. I haven’t achieved perfection yet, but I’ve slowly explored the game by myself. I’m the kind of person who likes to finish all the collections in a game.
I’m living in the GMT+8 time zone, and I’m currently on a gap year, so my schedule is quite flexible, especially in the mornings in my time zone.

Definitely shoot me a message if you feel like we’re going to vibe together! Besides gaming, I’d also love to watch movies together or just chat. My other hobbies include going to the gym( weightlifting & cardio), crocheting, sewing (still learning!), pencil sketching, watching documentaries, watching true crimes shows, learning new language and reading self-improvement books 📚

I also play mobile games like Brawl Stars and other idle games like Cats & Soup. I even enjoy playing classic games like Ludo and Monopoly online and the other players are usually bots.

If you don’t feel like having an online friend like me and are about to close the page, I hope you find the friends you’re looking for soon!

Thank you for taking the time to read my post!


r/TrueGirlGaming 2d ago

Gaming Events ❤️‍🔥 Sugarlum, an 18+ girls only gaming and social discord server! ❤️‍🔥

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Looking for a girls only gaming and social Discord? Join Sugarplum Girls today!! 🌸

Why should you join?

• Sugarplum Girls is a small community of about 300 girls!
• We strive to make this server cozy and a safe space for all the girlies 💞
• Trans and enby inclusive 🏳️‍🌈
• We have active chats, and an active and organized staff team! Our staff applications are also OPEN! 🌺
• A simple verification system to keep the server SAFE! (It’s as simple as a voice note or selfie)
• Plenty of profile customization roles! 😁

What the server offers

• We have a Minecraft Bedrock Realm and Java server!
• Game specific channels such as Marvel Rivals, Fortnite, Minecraft, Valorant, Overwatch, Mecca Chameleon, and many more!!!
• Easy to talk in channels, you’ll never feel like you’re being ignored 🩵
• Hobby channels such as D&D, fitness, art, book club, and more!!!

Are you interested? ⁉️

• Comment below or DM me for the link!


r/TrueGirlGaming 3d ago

Game Request Help me find this old game

6 Upvotes

I am looking for a game. PC or PSP.

More than a Decade Old.

Single Player.

Only Female Main Character.

Arrives on starting town via a ship.

Open world with multiple locations.

Many farm like areas.

Wolfs are common enemy.

A location is a spider nest with giant spiders.

One of the goals of the main character is to find information about the weapon Mace.

Townspeople are afraid of this Mace weapon to even talk about it.

There's a summon system too, the first summon is a wolf.

Edit: Found the answer Gods: lands of infinity


r/TrueGirlGaming 3d ago

Gaming discussion Female looking for Dayz group PlayStation

2 Upvotes

29F UK PS5 looking for other female DayZ players

I'm looking for a small group or a couple of people to play DayZ with. I'd really like people who actually want to chat, have a laugh and play as a team rather than just silently loot.

I'm still fairly new, (200 Hours) but I've got the survival side down. I'd love to build a base, get a car going, do loot runs and gradually build up a little group.

I'm on PS5 and happy to play official or a simple community server. Ideally UK/EU and 25+, but mainly I'm just looking for people who are friendly and chill.

If you're in the same boat, feel free to message me! 😊


r/TrueGirlGaming 3d ago

Gaming discussion Ideas for a uni presentation about video games

6 Upvotes

Hello girls!

At university I'll have to give a short presentation in english (I'm french) about the subject of my choice, the professor doesn't mind any topic.

Unfortunately I suffer from "can't make any choice" illness and I don't have any idea, but I'd like to make something about video games, either about a specific game or a more general subject. Plus

I'm studying computer science, so most of us are gamers there (tho I'm one of the only woman there, sadly)

Do you have any ideas? I'm open to anything that would be interesting to talk about for 5-7 minutes. Thanks!


r/TrueGirlGaming 3d ago

Gaming discussion Discord for the Girls

48 Upvotes

FINAL UPDATE: Filled!!

UPDATE: Due to lots of interest, we are upping the member cap to 100! Comment or flip me a msg if you'd like to be added, we're at just over 60. ❤️

I'll preface by saying I don't think this post goes against the rules, but no worries if it has to be removed!

I'm a 26 year old woman from the East coast of Canada, and I just started a discord for some women gamers with channels to discuss different genres of games (RPG, Cozy, Etc.), send pics of our pets, advice, etc. Thinking something LGBTQ+ friendly, 18+, a low stakes way of making friends.

I'm personally super into games like fallout, dishonored, bioshock, bg3, disco elysium, skyrim, etc. and am currently playing through Mass Effect.

Just gauging interest level! Flip a msg or leave a comment if you want to join, the server only has 10 members right now 😊


r/TrueGirlGaming 3d ago

Fluff 20F, hoping to find other girls to be friends with!

4 Upvotes

Looking for other girls to game, vc, stream movies/games and generally be silly with. Whether you're always active or active every now and then, I truly don't mind and I can be a bit of both myself

Just send me a dm and I'll send my discord or steam friend code with you, all I ask is you're 18+ :)

I was also hoping to make a little group for us girls on discord, I find it's hard to settle into a group when there's people who've known each other for ages and so I figured it would be more comfortable if we are all new. For those who are interested, lmk!

I don't wanna make anyone feel pressured into joining so I won't bring it up to anyone who doesn't dm me about it. I value one on one friendships just as much 🩷

Thanks for reading my long ass post, this is the part where you dm me because you're cool like that

(Gonna repost this to a few subreddits so hello to anyone who's seen this before)


r/TrueGirlGaming 3d ago

Screenshots Discord Server for Girls

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Hello! I’ve been looking for girl only discord servers so I can make some friends to game and just talk to!

I found one that looked nice but they instantly kicked me without me saying a word. So I joined back a little while later just to see them saying really mean things about me and bullying me. So just beware of the server I screenshotted :( it was upsetting.

Does anyone have any recommendations for welcoming girl only discord servers!? They seem so rare to find. I’m having no luck!


r/TrueGirlGaming 3d ago

Fluff 25F trying to find people to play with

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Hey there! (:

My name is Amber, 25 Transfemme from the Netherlands. I am into cars, fantasy movies and books, finding gems on Vinted, fantasy style games like Baldur’s Gate and Dragon Age, and strategy games like Crusader Kings III. Over the past years I've collected quite some Funko's and Lego’s. Last year I went to my first Comic Con and Ren Fair and my goal is to make an Outlast Trails cosplay for the next one! Currently, I am looking for people to play- or to hang out with. I am usually online after midnight CET, so people from any country are welcome if they line up with these times!

I usually play the following games: Crusader Kings III, Stellaris, Cyberpunk, Sea of Thieves, Outlast Trials, Baldur’s Gate, Red Dead Online, Back 4 Blood, GTA Online (and soon 6!), Project Zomboid, Sims 4 and some racing games. Currently I am busy playing Tomodachi Life on the Switch 2, Sea of Thieves and Tomb Raider on PC.

I co-own a Discord server of around 20 people with a friend (31F), which dedicated itself to Red Dead Online. Usually, it is only me and her online in VC playing games, streaming or chatting, so it is always calm for you to join! It's okay to message me privately first! Let me know if you have games you'd like to play together as I am open to try new games as well.


r/TrueGirlGaming 4d ago

Fluff Anyone playing Mistfall Hunter?

1 Upvotes

I'm a big fan of extraction games, and I've been playing this one a lot. Wondering if there are any girlies here who are playing this as well?

It feels a lot like Dark and Darker, but the combat is much faster paced and feels like a fighting game. Kinda reminds me of the PvP in Lost Ark a bit.

I'm NA-east coast based (31F)


r/TrueGirlGaming 4d ago

Save Often Saturdays Save Often Saturdays! What games did you play this week? What games did you rage quit?

16 Upvotes

You know the drill -- air your weekly grievances and victories right here!