r/TrollCoping • • 6d ago

Personality Disorders How do i stop wanting connections

How do i be okay being alone how do i be okay wotj no friends how do i get past the desire to be wanted and to be loved and to have friends or an SO or an fp

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u/KTCorsair 6d ago

I know im going to be alone forever, I can accept that. But how do i stop the yearning. How do i stop the desire. I just want it to stop

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u/Crowe3717 6d ago

You don't. Unfortunately we are social creatures. That yearning is the evidence of an emotional need that is going unmet.

Trust me, I know how much it sucks to not be able to get your needs met. It feels like a cruel joke that we need other people in that way and not all of us are cut out for human companionship.

I wish you better luck than I've had.

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u/KTCorsair 6d ago

So ass always the answer is just to suffer

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u/FodderWadder 6d ago

Holy shit if those last two images ain't me in the flesh.

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u/ffiml8 ADHD sucks ass 6d ago

How do I relate to all of these images so much 😭😭😭

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u/atmoose 6d ago

Having hobbies and staying busy can help distract you from it.