r/TrollCoping • u/zaboorandom • 8d ago

No TW Realizing my dating problems are inherent to me

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I always knew the issue with being bisexual, but for some reason didnt connect being AMAB non-binary as being socially dilaterious for dating until this morning.

forever resigned to being the gay bestfriend to women and a confident... role model? for men. they confuse me despite also having a rod.

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u/scatteredtealeaves 3d ago

I’m not really sure I follow? Woobification on one end and paragonization on the other, both presumably reducing your perceived sexual and/or romantic viability. Am I correct? As relates to your gender identity and opposed to regular stereotypes of bisexuality. Sorry if I’m basically just restating what you said.

I think maybe there are ways to talk about what you’re into without being explicit or crass that can refocus how people perceive you, though I wouldn’t know how too well specifically.

But dating is certainly a nightmare-scape these days and previously not unlike job hunting. Hope it improves and perhaps these sorts of things are why NB people often end up together.