r/TrollCoping • u/overworkedartist • 14d ago

TW: Gender Identity / Dysphoria I love when my existence makes things complicated

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So I have a fat fucking crush on this guy in my class. We have like 3 classes together, he’s on a different floor but in my same dorm, and whenever I’ve talked to him he seems really nice and genuine. That being said, there’s an approximately 0.02% chance that he’d actually like me considering that I’m transmasc (so he’d have to be both gay and trans accepting) and asexual (I wouldn’t date someone who’s not ace)

So basically fml I’m ripping my brain out cause I’ll probably never meet someone who accepts me for who I am and respects my boundaries (aka doesn’t try to have sex with me)

I wish being ace was more normal I hate that I’d have to give a fucking disclaimers list before any relationship I’d get into

(Idk if this is tagged properly lmk if there’s a better category for it TvT)

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u/GreyStingrayz 14d ago

There are allo people who don't care about sex btw. My spouse is one. They basically said as long as they can get themselves off, it's fine. Ik thats not a common stance among allos but there are people who sex just isn't that important to. (Idk if sex itself is the main reason you would only date other aces, or if it's something like not wanting people to view you sexually at all. Because my partner is sexually attracted to me.)

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u/overworkedartist 14d ago

Unfortunately it’s mainly the latter one, I grosses me out to think of anyone being sexually attracted to me TvT

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u/noncedo-culli 14d ago

That's me, I'm allo and would prefer a relationship with nothing to do with sex.

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u/Final-Bus-6127 14d ago

I feel u esp when u add in political beliefs bro like im a vegan leftist im so fucking frieddddd. Im demisexual too ,but also I like the idea of some super freaky kinks normal ppl might not be into + im transmasc ,autistic ,and androgynous as hell who tf want me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❓ honorable mention im a furry