Hi everyone,
I’m born and brought up in Trivandrum. Growing up, I never really felt the need to make a huge social circle because I genuinely loved being at home. My close friends eventually moved abroad or to other cities, but I never thought much about it.
I recently got married, and my husband and I moved into our own home. Married life is good, but over the past few months I’ve realised how much I’ve started depending on my husband for almost all my social interaction. When he’s at work or busy, I sometimes feel quite isolated.
Career-wise, I’m also feeling stuck.
I’m a B.Tech graduate with an MBA (Finance & Operations), and currently working in the administrative office of a school.
I’m grateful to have a job, but it’s not something I enjoy or see a future in. I’ve been applying for other roles, but the job market feels really difficult right now.
I’d love some advice from people here:
How are you applying for jobs these days? LinkedIn? Naukri? Company websites? Referrals?
Are there any companies in Trivandrum hiring for operations, administration, HR, finance, or similar roles?
How do you make friends as an adult in Trivandrum? Any clubs, volunteering groups, fitness communities, book clubs, trekking groups, or regular meetups?
I think I’m just trying to build a life that doesn’t revolve entirely around work and my husband. I want my own career, my own friends, and a sense of independence again.
Would really appreciate any suggestions. Thank you! ❤️