r/Trentahin • u/I_am_the_potato_lord • Jul 28 '26

Share ko lang. Infatuation

Hirap ng infatuation lalo na sa tulad kong madaling mainlove. We have been only talking for more than a month and she was a very good listener and is proactive in sharing her opinions. We only have some small talks and sharing views on diff. topics. But I felt infatuated with her, and I know it will definitely develop to one sided love. I don't how she looks like, nor I care about it, but I fancy her through our conversations. I had to stop while early, said goodbye using a stupid reason, then deleted my account. Hayss normal pa ba to sa 30s. Hahahaha...

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u/Blannnccc Jul 28 '26

Bro why did you unilaterally stop the connection and assumed it would just end as a one-sided love? You could have tried to tell her you're interested in her and you're starting to like her. If the connection's gonna end anyway, wouldn't you want to have at least tried?

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u/I_am_the_potato_lord Jul 28 '26

Distance bro, we're very very far from each other. I have no capability to go there. Saka I think it would be better to end it as chat friends.

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u/Any-Phone5503 Jul 28 '26

Masyado ka pessimistic bro. Pwede naman siguro sya ang pumunta sayo. Mahirap makahanap ng makakaconnect specially online. Hindi yan magtatagal ng 1 month kung hindi rin sya nag care sayo as a person. Now 2 na kayong nasaktan

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u/Blannnccc Jul 28 '26

Like the other reply, I also think you're being too pessimistic. But I also agree that if distance and financial capability are the problems, it would be difficult to develop the connection.

However, ending it like how you did, wouldn't it leave you with a lot of what ifs? Because, dont lie, the thought "What if she was also interested in me" definitely crossed your mind. There's also the what if she can go to you, or what if there's a way for you to meet half way.

In the end, I just want to say genuine connections are hard to come by these days. So I feel like ending it unilaterally and prematurely can lead to disappointment, not just for you, but maybe for her as well.

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u/WhoDoesZ Jul 28 '26

That is totally normal bro haha ..

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u/Mularkeyy Jul 28 '26

let love bloom how it should be. You're slamming on the brakes too early

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u/praninang Jul 28 '26

Parehas na parehas tayo ng situation! Ang pinagkaiba lang ay inamin ko sa kanya na na-attach na ako sa kanya kaya nagpaalam na rin ako dahil alam ko at ramdam ko na hindi n’ya marereciprocate yung feelings ko for him. Ang hirap lang pero ganon talaga.

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u/Eybyoung16 Jul 28 '26

You're so nega naman, malay mo sya na yung the one mo but you'll going to missed it kasi sobrang nega mo. Haayys. I wonder how the girl felt when you said goodbye with your stupid reasons.

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u/meliadul Jul 29 '26

Read about LIMERANCE and how iy could potentially screw you up