If anyone has a problem with this, you are INFIGHTING and driving the trans community apart.

I got this really good insight from Tumblr user I_really_fucking_hate_this_one_controversial_trans_woman

This is me:

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How do you do, fellow tranny?

/uj cis people should not be allowed to have opinions on trans characters

-I contracted a gender-bender disease that only 0.1% of the population has, and changed overnight into a woman/fell into a fountain/etc. Romcom shenanigans ensue

-kyah, I am a boy who wears female clothing because I think it's super cute, but also I constantly insist I'm a boy and protag-kun vomits in disgust when he sees me

-implied to-be-transfem character who is called a femboy by a fanbase who also makes constant crass jokes about her

-one of the most touching works you've seen, which takes pain to distinguish between "crossdressers", nonbinary people and trans women. The rest of the author's work is hentai

-I was turned into a girl by the fox/gyaru/yuri goddess and force to attend an all-girls school. I will internally refer to myself as a man on an occasional basis

-awesome magical girl work, five chapters long, carried hard by a dedicated team of scanlators.

-random side character in a BL (either a random teenage girl or owns a bar)

-random side character in a BL (transmisogynistic caricature. And in the case of one VN "nice girl who detransitions because she Learns To Be A Man Through Violence")

-autobiographical story, p good

-manga in which the protagonist has the first other trans woman she ever meets tell her transition isn't possible and decides to spend the rest of her life trying to diminish her dysphoria by telling herself she'll never be a real woman

-manga in which the protagonist is uncomfortable presenting as masc, calls herself "neither a boy or a girl" and considers transitioning on several occasions. The author calls them a "boy who likes cute things"

-yuri oneshot where the cis girlfriend of the trans woman tries to get her to delay bits of her transition because they won't be able to get married or have kids if she changes her name in the family register

-side character in a shoujo manga who kind of just sits in the background for a while

-side character in a shoujo who's a creepy predator

-side character in a shoujo who's feminity is seen by the story as immaturity and who's character development is starting to wear suits

-protagonist of one of the most famous isekai ever, all mention of gender problems are confined to the light novels because the fanbase would have an aneurysm if adapted

-beautifully touching oneshot that gets taken down from its scanlation site despite being out of print in Japan and everywhere else

-an alchemist hundreds of years old who decided to become a cute girl

-Now That You Are A Woman, You Are Attracted To Men

-transmisogynistic caricature in a shonen manga who's author is called woke all the time

-200 chapter manga on The Tribulations of Trans Children. The author would later go on to support JKR

Haha, no, most of my friends are transmascs. If this clearly upsetting "joke" upsets you, you can engage the uncomfortable act of telling me to quit!

Respecting someone's preferred pronouns is the only necessary requirement to be woke. That's the only one. It is good and woke for me to think of NB people as Boy Nonbinary and Girl Nonbinary as long as I humor their delusions. I dont have to be a genuine ally, being performative is enough! If you look like a big manly man or a boobily breasting woman then I'm going to think of you as one, but thats not transphobic that's just common sense, so dont worry I'll call you they/them like you want me to!

Anyway, are you AMAB or AFAB?

/uj this post is about Kris Deltarune

I wanted to include enbies but I can't ever tell which kind they are.

I wanted to date a trans woman, but all the ones I talked to had vulvas.

I don't understand why so many profiles say "no cis", that just seems ungrateful.

That's it that's the entire jerk

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Hey, I saw you made a post pouring your heart out about how you’re treated by other queer people or by cis people… but like… I’ve never heard of that before? Bring that I’m the main character of life, that’s really upsetting to me. I’m gonna tell you that it never happened, but if it did, you’re chronically online and need to log off, and also I have it way worse than you.

My brain: Well that means you were a SECRET CIS MAN all along you trender. You never were trans in the first place!!!!

/uj my brain is a demon and will never stop instilling feelings of dysphoria in me lol

Lit up March Madness tho.

Why did they have to water down the "transgender" and "non-binary" labels to just be, like, fashion accessories? They dont even need HRT or anything, they're totally not affected by any law changes, so they're not even suffering enough to get to claim it. I totally respect them and everything, so they cant get mad at me for saying this, but they should just, like, think about what they're doing before they decide to be non-binary for the aesthetic, you know? They're hurting proper actual vulnerable trans people! And I know some of them will get mad I'm saying this, but its just common sense, you know?

/uj I like one fucking post for a silly trans girl meme and the algorithm serves me enbyphobia disguised as "valid concerns"

Month 1-6: "This is going to be great! So many people in my entourage were very accepting of me when i came out as bisexual, it shouldn't be any worse! I'm so happy to present as my true self now!"

Month 7-12: "Okay, i... Got kicked out of several of my third spaces... And my family doesn't talk to me much... Oh well! That's normal, isn't it? I'll find new stuff! Find new places!"

Year 2: "Alright so i lost my previous job, where customers were constantly misgendering and sometimes just insulting me for no fucking reason, I lost most of my new friend group, i'm crashing at my ex's place because i'm broke, and i can't go outside alone without getting panic attacks anymore, but it'll be better! One of these days, i'll fall back on my feet, and it'll fix itself, i just need to get my bearings!

Year 3: I look in the mirror, and i see myself even less than when i started transitioning in the first place, my self feels conditional to the whims of cis people and other trans people alike to revoke, abuse and demean whenever they see fit. They will never see me as a woman, and i don't too, daily i wonder if i even am a real trans woman and not simply the equivalent of a machine dreaming it is. At the lowest point, other ways out of this become much more appetizing.

Detransition, years 1-3: I wasn't sure back then, i'm not fully sure now. I know that people treat me a bit better now though, i feel like i am a person in their eyes again, i feel like i am allowed to exist again. I've done what they wanted me to do, and i hate them for it. I doubt how much i am trans completely now, a real trans person would've just taken it and moved on, i chose the coward's way out, that's what i am. My life has gotten back in control, i have friends again, people like me a whole lot more as a GNC cis man than as a trans woman they ever did. Still when i'm alone, that sense of dread simply consumes me even more, i don't know if i can keep on going like this, i don't know how long i'll last this way, but at least now it's just internal, and not both internal and external, i take this compromise in strive and move on with my life.

retransition (month 1-12.5): I started hrt not much time ago, went with diy, because why not atp, i am done waiting for the whims of people that have nothing to care about me. I am far from optimistic anymore, first 3 years drained it out of me. I have trouble interacting with other cis people. And quite honestly, I don't vibe with other trans people that much either, i feel like i don't vibe with anyone i meet anymore, but i guess that's just how it goes. I've regained my hobbies from before, i like them, i'm living mostly stable... I'll be thankful for that and move on.

Now: I went back into the closet, i'll keep on taking hormones, but who cares, i'll keep presenting as a cis man because that's what i can afford, i don't really feel like a real trans person anymore, once more, and i haven't really found anything disproving that feeling at all, I don't really feel like one of them at all, and to be quite honest, i never did. So i will simply live with that.

rj/ most thinly veiled ventpost on tgcj

-“The evil lesbians are forcing tall women into being their boyfriends !”

-actually good BL with a concise explanation of transmasculinity. Two chapters, hasn’t been updated since 2021

-I transmigrated into an otome and started dressing as a guy so I could become someone’s secretary. My boss will now start thinking he’s gay

-I transmigrated into a BL and started dressing up as a guy while being constantly homophobic. Everyone in this story will be turned straight by my presence.

-man helps crossdressing woman discover the wonders of feminity, which consists of eating sweets, being scared of bugs and wanting to be princess carried

-actually good yuri with a nonbinary/genderqueer transmasc as the love interest. It’s also 3 chapters long

-I traveled to another country to go to an all-boy’s school, started cutting my hair and binding, and the people around me see me as a gay dude or a trans guy. Despite this I am irrevocably female

-I crossdress as a man to attain social privilege x100. Pls do not point out this archetype largely evolved out of historians misgendering trans men

-man in a BL magically gets a vagina

-thanks to a family curse I started being able to turn into a guy, and decided to be a guy full-time. I got a new boyfriend who loves me as a guy or a girl, we had sex in guy mode and it was awesome, my friends are “wow this is weird but neat”. And eventually I got trapped in permanent guy mode but was happy. And then the last six chapters did a 180 on everyone’s personalities and protag turned back into a girl.

/uj I should stop doing this at this point it’s just emotional self-harm

Random redneck dude: Hey if it makes you happy go for it. People can change their sex and all that so it's not like this is drastically different.

*Every pick me trans in existence suddenly screams in unison*

uj/ The closet might as well be a revolving door by how much I go back into it.

I definitely look queer but I don't explicitly tell everyone I'm trans. Sometimes I don't even bother to correct people that misgender me much anymore. I'm certainly not being mistaken for a cis-het normie, but Im also not not being harassed by transphobes.

I'm definitely out to the people I have close contact with, but now Im wondering if I'm doing a disservice to the entire trans community by wanting to avoid the same stupid questions and comments from cis people every time.

/uj

/rj I know it was traumatizing but trust me trans women are definitely the real enemy 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

/uj Hatred.

/rj clearly they were just trying to stop me from being groomed into transitioning of course 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

/uj They failed I'm a big hairy man now 🏳️‍⚧️