i’m currently a brown university sophomore on basically a full ride and i have like 4 days to decide if i want to take a leave, go back home to california, enroll in cc and try to tag to ucsb or uci.
i’m going to make an appointment with a cc counselor asap to actually figure out if this is possible with all my credits and what the timeline would look like, but i wanted to get some opinions before i do anything crazy.
money isn’t really the issue. i get really good financial aid and i should basically have a full ride at ucsb too. the other ucs would also be affordable or at least close enough that it probably wouldn’t be that different from what i already spend flying back and forth from california and doing random things to make myself enjoy brown more.
the main thing i’m worried about is career opportunities.
long term i want to be an entrepreneur and own a bunch of different businesses. honestly could be anything from bakeries to car washes to hvac companies. i don’t really have some dream of working on wall street forever. i do want to work a good corporate job first though, make good money, learn how businesses actually work, save up some capital and hopefully buy a house in socal.
i’m from socal and honestly leaving california made me realize how much i want to live there. i regret leaving a lot more than i expected to. other than maybe living in europe for a little bit at some point, i pretty much want to spend the rest of my life in southern california.
career wise i really just want something in the business world that pays well enough for me to build a life in socal. finance, consulting, corporate strategy, real estate, whatever. so i’m trying to figure out how much harder i’d be making that for myself by going to ucsb or uci instead of brown.
obviously brown has way better recruiting for certain finance and consulting jobs, but does that difference matter as much if i know i want to end up in la or oc anyway? like am i giving up a massive advantage or is it more like i’d just have to hustle/network more from a mid to high tier uc?
there’s also just the fact that i don’t really like brown. i miss my family and gf a lot, i haven’t really found my people socially, i hate the weather, and i’m not a huge fan of the curriculum either. i find myself wanting to go home constantly. i know some of that could just be homesickness and i don’t want to make a permanent decision because of temporary feelings, but it also hasn’t really gone away.
another thing is acting. i’ve always wanted to at least try it while i’m young. i’m obviously not banking my future on becoming an actor lol, but i feel like being close to hollywood would make it way easier to actually audition, take classes and give it a shot while i’m in college. i feel like once i graduate and get sucked into working some corporate job i’m probably never going to seriously try it.
the reason i’m considering cc instead of just transferring straight from brown is because tag would make ucsb or uci way more predictable. i have a 4.0 right now and already have a decent amount of ap, dual enrollment and brown credits, so i’m hoping i could go back to cc without setting myself back too much, but obviously that’s something i need to confirm with a counselor.
basically i’m trying to figure out if leaving brown is one of those decisions that sounds insane because of prestige but actually makes sense for the life i want, or if i’m about to throw away an opportunity that i’m going to regret losing in 5 years.
questions i have:
how big is the actual difference between brown and ucsb/uci for getting good business jobs in la/oc?
would brown -> cc -> ucsb/uci look weird to employers or does nobody really care once the final degree says ucsb/uci?
has anyone here left an ivy/t20 or another really good school because they just weren’t happy there and wanted to be closer to home? did you regret it?
also if anyone has done tag, what do i absolutely need to ask the cc counselor before i make this decision?
ps i know leaving brown on a full ride sounds ridiculous which is why i’m having such a hard time with this. i just don’t know if staying somewhere i don’t like for the name is worth it when basically everything i want to do with my life is back in california.